>What about a guy who's only good at basic studies and is a NEET in a way? As in, he's not good at military stuff at all.
If someone was truly "not good at military stuff" they'd probably be placed in a non-combat role or in some sort of position where he would be most useful according to his nature. This is the best part about having an organicist conception of groups and the state. Just as cells are differentiated into various kinds with different roles in the human body, so are humans within complex societies.
>To me, premarital sex is acceptable if the man and the woman really love each other
I get where you are coming from, but at a societal level it may be more beneficial to restrict sexual activity as much as possible to marriage and to shame premarital sex. The consequences of premarital sex are overwhelmingly negative, some of which I touched on in an earlier post above
. The result, even even in spite of all of the contraceptive measures we have today, is an explosion in single parent households, bad conditions for children, and atrophied pair-bonding abilities the more partners one has had. This needs to be prevented. Our future generations need the best possible environment, and this is, to no one's surprise the nuclear family at minimum [spoiler]and the more extended members the better too[/spoilers]. Just because there may be some who could get in a car without being licensed and drive more or less okay, we have made licenses obligatory for a reason, as the consequences outweigh the benefits of not having them. Same with marriage and sex. A degree of self-control for all benefits society in the long run. Unfortunately, seemingly controlled and intelligent people like yourself are a minority, and for every person who thinks like you there are hundreds who just fuck with abandon, think that they are "really in love" after only a short time of knowing each other, etc.
I support both men and women getting married earlier though, so I don't see these restrictions as trying as asking some man to remain absolutely celibate until he was like 25 or something though.
>I don't believe that you need to abuse/beat the wife like achmeds do but you will need to show some domination.
Literal beatings and giving them black eyes is nigger-tier, I agree. I do
support a level of domestic discipline though - spankings, etc. The family is a small state, and there has to be authority.