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Anonymous 02/07/2023 (Tue) 20:30:06 No.4870
>be in relationship, never tell him I'm a cuck, he cheats on me of his own volition >Heartbroken, break up with him >New bf, absolute sweetheart >Ask him to cuck me >He refuses >"I don't think I'm comfortable doing that sort of thing, it feels wrong, even if you ask for it." Does God just find this funny or something? Is this a common issue? Actually decent guys refusing on the basis of loyalty? I've heard of some male cucks having their wife shoot down their cuck proposals on the basis of wanting to be a loyal wife. Is there any way to tell if I've somehow damaged his view of me by asking? He's more or less a normie so he's not a desensitizated coomer or anything and he's probably too nice to tell me what he really thinks about it. He just dropped it and neither of us have brought it up since, I'm mildly on the spectrum and have near zero ability to read subtle cues, how do I figure out if I've fucked up? I've talked to guys on other Chans before and asked them their thoughts, they said they'd take a woman asking this as her asking for an open relationship so she can "be a whore without feeling bad about it" and I'm kind of scared that's what he thinks I want. He's been cheated on before and I'm scared I set off alarm bells in his head. Did I just fuck up beyond repair?
>>4870 Okay, anon, I have this proposal. It might sound insane but hear me out. Sit down and talk to him about it.
>>4870 you've fucked up. Should have asked for a threesome. Even if he said no, there wouldn't be alarm bells going off in his head
>>4871 Anon wouldn't be asking us about it if she felt that was something she could just do. If she's on the spectrum then the conversation would be even more overwhelming and difficult than it would already be for a neurotypical person. Talking about it is good advice on its face, but it ignores that all the ingredients that would make that talk successful are often missing. >>4872 I've also seen accounts from men for whom the request for a threesome set off alarm bells, so that wouldn't have made much of a difference. >>4870 >>be in relationship, never tell him I'm a cuck, he cheats on me of his own volition I'm very sorry to hear that happened to you, Anon. Awful. Just awful. You were correct to break up with that guy. >Is this a common issue? Actually decent guys refusing on the basis of loyalty? I've seen lots of different reasons a guy might not want to do cuckqueaning, but there isn't enough time to go into all of them here. I've no idea how common it is for men to refuse, but I've seen plenty of men professing online that they'd not want to do it. I've also stumbled across many horror stories where the girl was indeed trying to manipulate or test the man; I can understand why a man would be suspicious. You can also look at the male advice thread over at >>2371 to confirm that the alarm bells are real. All that said, it seems to me that you have two problems, and that this one— >how do I figure out if I've fucked up? >they'd take a woman asking this as her asking for an open relationship so she can "be a whore without feeling bad about it" and I'm kind of scared that's what he thinks I want. >He's been cheated on before and I'm scared I set off alarm bells in his head. —is the more important. First, the answer to your main question: >Did I just fuck up beyond repair? No, probably not. There's no way for us to guess what he thinks about it because we've not much information about him or the relationship, but I think it might reassure you to be able to make sure that he understands what you were actually thinking rather than what he might imagine you were (or what you imagine he imagines you were). Feel free to give us more information if you think it'll help and you're comfortable in doing so. Since you're on the spectrum, maybe it would help to have a rough script? Here's how I'd start off if I was in your position. Feel free to ask for reasoning or detail, and to adapt it to your needs: "<term of endearment>, what I said the other day—about wanting you to cuck me? I'm completely fine with you not wanting to, but I've seen a lot of guys online who got tricked by girls saying that sort of thing and then using it to try and negotiate an open relationship or other access to strange dick, or who were testing them and freaked out if they looked like they'd accept. I wasn't going for any of that; I wasn't trying to trick you and I wasn't testing you. It must have seemed like a really weird thing for me to want, I know, but it was sincere." Depending on how the conversation goes, you might also end up assuring him that cuckqueaning is a real thing, that you're not damaged for wanting it, or otherwise explaining your version of the fetish to him. Do you know enough about cuckqueaning and your own desires that you'd be comfortable with that? Come to think of it, how did you originally raise the matter with him and ask him to cuck you? I know this isn't much, but I hope it at least helped you feel a little better. Lots of people find navigating sex to be very tricky so take some comfort that you aren't alone!
I hope OP is okay.
>>4952 Me too. I regret getting all pushy with advice and scaring OP off but I still hope it works out. I hate it when bad things happen to good queans.
>>4874 That example comes off as backpedaling and that you considered those things as possible outcomes. Doing nothing and letting it be forgotten as a weird horny moment or a test that he passed would be the safer bet in that situation. Of course, you won't get cucked that way, but if he sees it as a moral issue or something that would endanger the relationship that's probably not happening anyway.
>>4977 (very nice) That's true, I suppose. I always err on the side of being too honest in my relationship so perhaps it is I who have the 'tism.
>>4870 >mildly on the spectrum >mildly
>>4874 Random male anon that somehow ended up here. I wouldnt feel comfortable doing it, but i wouldnt shit can my girl immediately (if i had one) for bringing it up. I would just find it weird. i dont want other women, hence why im with her and not them. Going balls deep in some other girl would make me feel like a creep. God help me if she ends up regretting it and weve shitted up our relationship. I'd feel horrible. >Now if she asks to fuck other guys im out on the spot.
OP hasn't said if she actually want to fuck other guys or not, because if she do...Well, I guess the alarm is correct :/ But yea, a lot of guys seems to have a huge amount of suspicion about this due to the past experience and/or other guy's bad experience, its not some made up thing, so tread with care.
>>4871 ^This. Make it perfectly clear that in you know way intend an open "relationship" or MFM sex EVER (unless the other male is a very passable trap and you only get to watch or something if that's among your things). >>5208 Look, I'm all for religion's regulatory social role but this kind of attitude is that has perverted the near entirety of your clergy into homosexuals crypto-marxist revisionists and turned most of your flock to either deleterious unreligiosity or Islam. If you are not Eastern Orthodox you do not even approach the position to be smug about your biblicality.
>>4870 he thinks it is a trap
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>>5231 I'm sorry OP, these are waters that are hard for anyone to navigate and my heart goes out to you.

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