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Male advice Containment Anonymous 03/28/2021 (Sun) 20:29:38 No.2371
Just as the title of thread says, this is a containment thread for male advice. Other guys are welcome to post here as well, if there are any. Primarily making this because I need advice on how to approach and proceed on a few things and honestly have no idea how to go about things. The most that Im hoping for in my specific situation is at least a long, possibly awkward, conversation with my wife and at least getting her to be more willing to discuss various kinks that she has. Its not so much that Im incapable of talking to her about such, its just she tends to clam up about anything outside the social and religious orthodox that we come from. That isnt to say I dont know about other more conventional things, but engaging her about things outside that is rather tough. Its not as if I could flat out ask and not expect things to go poorly if I happen to be wrong. Again, Im mostly hoping for an awkward conversation and for life to just go on as normal. There are numerous things that lead me to believe she's into quean stuff; whatever dynamic I can only guess as she's rather demanding for control of things. Maybe a vixen? Ill go more indepth about this in another post, but what really seemed to make it clear was when having our last child we were unable to have sex for a good 4+ months and I was given permission to get a girlfriend so long as she knew about it. I didnt do this as like the other prior times such had come up, primarily out of an assumption that it was a shittest. Though other conversations about engaging in polygyny make me wonder. Some of these conversations are joking, teasing, and others are oddly serious. Even if nothing comes of it, I basically just want advice as to go about approaching such a conversation or leading into being able to get her to acknowledge such if only be closer to her. I think her reluctance is mostly based on our background which doesnt really allow for such and maybe other sexual things, whereas polygyny isnt exactly forbidden, just frowned upon and considered "illegal". Any kind of general advice would be welcomed, as well as any questions. Ill do my best to answer what I can overall without giving away too much.
>>2371 Guess I should have asked a question. What would be a good way to go about asking if she's actually somewhat into that without necessarily asking? >asking flat out if she'd wants me to have sex with someone else seems like a generally bad idea >especially if Im wrong Part of the reason I've decided to pursue part of this is because there may be a similar issue as what happened during the last pregnancy, though this time it would mean some seven months of no sex. Which means the offer may reappear again, but Id like to get things figured out before then. She didnt handle the last time very well.
>>2371 >Maybe a vixen? You might be confused. A vixen is the "other woman" who the man has sex with. >>2372 >She didnt handle the last time very well. Explain, please.
>>2373 Im still trying to figure out some of the terminology, my bad. >last time Got hospitalized for preterm labor (multiple times), eventually an observant nurse bothered to ask a million dollar question. Told that we couldnt have sex else it would keep happening. She apparently took this to mean she wasnt allowed to cum, not that the protein in the sperm was causing her to go into preterm. Orgasms can cause it, but its usually the protein like 90% of the time. 4+ months of no sex and she was... Different about things during and even after awhile. >offered that I could have a girlfriend >routinely asked for me to masturbate for her >would bring up and talk more depth about sex, in particular what I want or look for in women Which was odd, since I obviously wouldnt be looking >demanded to know a few times if I ever considered anyone other than her >told me to buy condoms but then adamantly refused that we should use them Personally at the time I chalked it up to her just being pent up and full of hormones; thats highly atypical behavior for her, shes usually very reserved and getting her to talk about anything sexual is often awkward or rather straightforward but with oddly family friendly phrasing. Were finally on a decade of marriage and she's only recently okay with dirty talking.
>>2371 >>2372 >>2374 Let's make sure we're talking about the same thing. Cuckqueaning is a sexual fetish/kink; I encourage my man to sleep around because I like it when he does. Two main types of cuckqueans exist: Compersive (mainly get off on their man getting off; don't experience it as humiliating) and humiliation-driven (mainly get off on the humiliation of their man getting off elsewhere; actively seek to be degraded by the experience). But take note: Just because a woman might allow her man to fuck another girl doesn't mean she's a cuckquean. For example, a woman involved in a threesome together with her man and a third girl might not particularly get off on her man fucking that third girl, and e.g. instead might enjoy experimenting with the bisexual aspect of it, regarding her man's sexual contact with the other girl as merely an interesting side-show she can take or leave. Such a woman would not be a cuckquean in the sexual fetish sense. I think it's safest to assume a woman doesn't have a cuckqueaning fetish until conclusively proven otherwise. What you've described plus the strong religious streak suggests to me that your wife might feel it to be her duty to ensure you're getting off regularly, and if she can't do so herself she seeks other means of doing so, up to and including suggesting you sleep around. If this is the case, it's not the same thing as wanting you to sleep around for her own sexual gratification. It's also possible (but much less probable) that she's nursing a secret cuckqueaning fetish and is only able to let herself express it when circumstances "force" it (e.g. she feels guilty about it so needs an excuse). Without being able to actually discuss it with her, there's very little you can do to determine which is which. I do wonder: You were offered a girlfriend, but what did your wife expect to happen once she'd given birth and was able to fulfil her marital duties again? You keep the girlfriend, or does the poor girl get kicked to the curb?
>>2375 Ill read more about it then. Id think overall if it does apply itd likely be compersive then, simply based on things that I know for certain. Ive considered both of those, which is part of why I wanted advice. Its not so much that I cant, just being overt about it might not go over well. Like... Is there a subtle way to find out or should I just go about trying to kickstart such a conversation? If it helps the more serious conversations about polygyny are part of what led me to making my assumption overall. To be entirely honest I have no idea, and hadnt considered that at all. I had completely dismissed everything, but if I hadnt that wouldnt have been a good situation at all; especially if she didnt have the fetish.
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>>2376 >Like... Is there a subtle way to find out or should I just go about trying to kickstart such a conversation? There are subtle ways to lead her into such a conversation, but they rely on context and skills that I suspect you might not have. One way might have been to say something like >Remember that thing about me having a girlfriend? I stumbled on an imageboard full of girls who like their men to have side girls, pretty weird huh? But since you've posted here, that's a non-starter. I'd counsel against introducing her to the "cuckquean" term early, if you were thinking about that, since the humiliation-driven stuff (much of it quite ugly) dominates search results and your wife might end up understanding the term to mean exclusively that. This is because humiliation-driven cuckqueans experience telling people about their humiliation as being even more humiliating, so naturally they do it more. >the more serious conversations about polygyny are part of what led me to making my assumption overall You keep referring to these but give us no information. What are we supposed to do with it? When it comes right down to it, it sounds like you're afraid of your wife's response no matter whether you approach it openly or covertly. That's not a great position to be in and will lead to misunderstandings at best and pain at worst.
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>You were offered a girlfriend, but what did your wife expect to happen once she'd given birth and was able to fulfill her marital duties again? You keep the girlfriend, or does the poor girl get kicked to the curb? The answer to this seems pretty important to me. If it's to kick her to the curb and she really means that then it's just desperation. I really just can't overstate the importance of being honest with each other, but right now she sounds like she needs that advice more than you. If you can't tell whether her answer to that question is honest, we sure can't. Does she have the idea in her head that it's a failure of hers if her husband has to masturbate for a few months? It's possible you put that idea in her head by complaining about the inadequacy of masturbation as a substitute for the wife's touch. It's possible that you didn't, but she got the idea from somewhere else. Something to clear up with her, I feel. >I was given permission to get a girlfriend so long as she knew about it. I didn't do this as like the other prior times such had come up What's odd to me is that she keeps bringing it up. If you know the option is on the table, and she knows you know, why continue to mention it? What does she think will happen if you don't avail yourself of the option? Has she become insecure, and worried you will leave her? So that's another angle to start asking from, maybe better than the first approach I mentioned.
>>2377 Its not an issue of her response, its whether or not it was handled tactfully. Id rather not ruin what I already have, Im perfectly happy with what I have I just want to make sure that she is as well or at least willing to discuss such with me. Im happily married, Id rather not blow that up because Im an idiot; perfectly reasonable thing to be worried about. Im starting to think that maybe thumbing through a thesaurus and approaching things about compersion and her obsession with watching me get off might be a good avenue. >Polygyny Right. Comes up every now and then. This ranges from light jokes to full on serious discussions. Basically everything most to do with it in whatever aspect whenever it tends to come up. From teasing >"Haha, well you arent allowed to just pick out a new dishwasher with benefits, I get a say." To more thought out serious discussions >"I think the best way to set up a house like that would be have everyone under one rough, that way things are consistent and clear. Having a man hop from house to house isnt fair to the kids or his wives." Its like a weird subject that we keep coming back to, like truecrime nuts constantly wanting to discuss cannibalism; we just end up talking about it fairly often in almost every context and besides discussing ways that it could be done wrong, theres never really a negative connotation. one of our more indepth conversations basically going over how everything would need to be done or structured overall; such as how the kids would need to be brought up, sleeping arrangements, employment, and even how date nights would theoretically work. More recently I was told in a fairly serious manner when the subject came up again >"Well if we do that, I get to choose who they'll be. Okay?" This is a definite part that leads me here but also leaves me to wonder if this is nebulous random discussion or not. We often discuss various odd stuff at length, but not so much or as often as setting up a household where Id have at least two wives or more. >>2382 Dunno, never bothered for her to clarify. Guess I could ask her this time around as it'll likely come up again. >failure of hers No, at least not that Im aware of or by any indication shes given. She tends to view that as something kink based more than anything, like a reward that I should give her every now and then. She seems to get off on watching me, or just knowing that Im doing so. We werent properly able to for 4months, but that doesnt mean that she couldnt do certain things, but there was a definite preference for watching me or at least knowing. That with the girlfriend thing or the long discussions on polygyny it isnt such a leap. >prior times Theyre few and far between, the last time was nearly three years ago during the 4 month stint. The offer is usually infrequent and seems to follow with us either not being able to have sex for whatever reason, stressed, or when she's drunk. >insecure I hope not, Ill have to talk to her about that, moreso about if she believes Id leave. That's more important. Input so far has been good, thanks for the responses.
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>>2384 >"I think the best way to set up a house like that would be have everyone under one rough, that way things are consistent and clear. Having a man hop from house to house isnt fair to the kids or his wives." I agree with your wife, FWIW. >"Well if we do that, I get to choose who they'll be. Okay?" >She seems to get off on watching me, or just knowing that Im doing so >there was a definite preference for watching me or at least knowing Now we're getting somewhere. These are indeed things that point towards your wife having components of the cuckquean fetish; the voyeuristic interest in your pleasure is a big one. Next time the polygyny discussions come up, steer towards bedroom arrangements and explore what her attitude towards sex would be. One big bed? Threesomes can't happen all the time, so would she want to watch? Egg on and encourage you and her co-wife? (A long while ago, we had input from one woman in a polygynous marriage who said the point where she really gelled to the arrangement sexually was when the first wife held her hand and egged her on while she was getting fucked.) Other things you want to discover in the polygyny discussions: >Does she think of polygyny only as a "backup" for when she's out of commission, or as something she'd be happy with in general? >How does she think she'd get along with a co-wife? >You'd be having sex with another woman under her nose. What does she think about that? >One big bedroom or separate bedrooms for each wife? Pros/cons? >How would dating to find a co-wife work? She has to be involved in the selection process, after all... >What's the best number of wives? >Does the first wife in a polygynous marriage ever get "buyer's remorse"? And so on. Move from polygyny in general to specific hypotheticals involving her, keeping the tone light-hearted. Be sure to tell her you think it's cool that she's so relaxed and open about a topic that sends some women into angry rages. Pay attention to where she goes with the discussion and let her feel encouraged to express herself. Many women with this fetish find that people just straight up do not understand, so it's important to show that you're capable of understanding the dynamic from her perspective and that you think it's cool that she thinks about it like she does. Another thing you can do is to explore the sexual dynamic wherein she feels good when you feel good. You say that the thing where she asks to watch you masturbate is >usually infrequent and seems to follow with us either not being able to have sex for whatever reason, stressed, or when she's drunk but have you suggested doing it yourself? Ever done it as foreplay to normal sex? Given yourself a couple of cheeky tugs on your morning wood with a big grin before you get up? You only learn the parameters of something by exploring it.
Went with a light push on the voyeurism and posing hypotheticals as well as claiming that I had a dream where I had a harem of multiple wives of only her. Pretty significant results and some mildly amusing stuff. At this point Im definitely certain she is rather into cuckquean but likely not entirely comfortable with it or the certain aspects as well as worried that I'd somehow be stolen away/be tempted to leave. So, to start with I decided to go over the 'dream'. Which was interesting. She seemed to have a mixed reaction but turned on by it which lead to an interesting conversation. >she suggested that we do roleplay >floated the idea that she could be a hooker or just some girl I picked up at a bar >I offered back that thats too sleazy, offering instead a girlfriend or co-wife scenario >she didnt like the girlfriend suggestion and at first refused to address why co-wife wasnt good >eventually settled on "its too realistic" while her face was red >asked for an explanation and all I got was weak deflections >"Youre too handsome, someone might try to steal you." Im honestly rather average and absolutely nothing special, >"besides, most women out there are nuts." >"where would we all sleep? Itd be awkward." When I offered, jokingly, that I could change my office into a bedroom she kind of sputtered and told me I was mean and went back into other deflections >"well, Im greedy. Id want you more often." Pointed out that that wasnt a no >"well you arent allowed to date, most women are nuts and thats a weird situation." Follow back with a teasing tone that she said she'd pick co-wife, since I apparently wasnt allowed to. Went beet red and then became sexually aggressive Decided at some point to keep prodding about why she said it was too realistic, as if I could just pop out and come home with a second wife. Obviously even getting to a point to even attempt such a situation would probably be a ton of work and lots of screening; even more so since I have children, my state has squatter laws, and more. So this was definitely odd to me and at least seems that indicate that its at least a very real thing to her that I could just have a second wife. >she wouldnt explain the why she said it was too realistic and still refuses to, instead deflecting still or just outright changing the subject No anger, just kind of a general embarrassment and more indications that this is something she seems to have thought about thoroughly From there I decided to push on some of the voyeur/compersion stuff. Continued with the harem dream thing and worked it in as dirty talk about having to watch me use a different her however I wanted. Ill spare the unnecessary details, but did pick up rather big stuff >she's absolutely into the idea of watching me >she's up for watching me have sex, suggesting taping it >floated that she didnt think itd be as good to watch me having sex with her, phrased in such a way to suggest that she wanted to watch me rail a girl that she considers prettier than herself Something like >"Im not that pretty, so it wouldn't be as fun for me to watch." Didnt push on this, but will at a later time. And yes, I did make sure to reassure her about how she looks. Gonna try and get that why. >>2386 >polygyny discussions Definitely going to see, some of the stuff we talked about the other day hit on these but not fully. Another aspect that might be part of the unwillingness to discuss is general views on bisexuality versus wants, dunno. >other things >backup It seems more like the offered excuse would be "backup" but that she's into it, Ill have to find a way to bring this up at some point. Have mentioned that housechores and such would be easier with another wife. >"no, youd just end up with two of us being pregnant and grumbling at you." Told her I wouldnt mind that, which prompted a subject change as her face went red Some of those are pretty tough, Ill likely marry them with what I parsed out and see what she says >likely multiple bedrooms as she's indicated >compersion dynamic Basically was told its now part of my husbandly responsibilities to let her watch me masturbate and that I have to really let her know that I enjoy it lmao
>>2391 Ill see you guys in a week or so, going to see what she'll be willing to open up on. Thanks for all the replies so far
Bit more than a week, sorry. But I do have updates and seem to be making reasonable progress. Otherwise Im honestly having a ton of fun as Ive been pushing all sorts of buttons lately. >polygyny discussion Came up a few times, usually at her prompting and often resulted in her playfully getting "upset" with me or turning red and suddenly deflecting. Discussions are usually less than 30 mins, but this is a step up from occasionally touching on the subject tangentially and saying oddly cq themed things and parachuting out of it or only maintaining a less than 5 mins convo Telling stuff though >"well at least we know that any kids you'd have would be just as cute as ours," >"its not like a second wife would change the outcome, you'll practically only shooting Xs. Do you really want to have twice as many daughters?" Said a didnt mind >"Well that many kids would drive you nuts, besides you really think you could handle more than one woman?" Suggested that I could and that its not as if there arent two spots to sit on. She then demanded that I prove it >"w-well, its not like youd get to go dating or anything, I wont allow it." Rebutted with "because you said you'd get to choose who." She simply turned red became physically demanding. Noticed a bit of correlation that any discussion of either watching me or being involved with some other woman tends to result in her wanting to jump my bones. Dunno if this is because its turning her on or if she's turned on by the idea of having to restake her claim to me. >"Besides, itd be dangerous if you had more than one wife. We'd be constantly pregnant." On discussing in a similar vein as before but also that I like seeing her pregnant >"even if we could find someone its illegal un- well...yeah." Suggested that its only an issue if we tried to process it through the govt, a purely religious situation where we dont engage in common law wouldnt be an issue at all. >"I guess so, besides I get to choose." >"And its not like we could just pop out and pick up a second wife for you. Haha, I-I mean... How would we even do that? Haha, its not there are places where we could go and find someone and say 'h-hey, come by and fuck my husband.'." This was after discussing her voyeuristic interests and I ended up biting myself to stop from saying anything. She was beet red and nervously laughing about it while sounding kind of disappointed. We had been discussing filming me having sex and she kept giving input as if Id not being having sex with her IF we ever filmed stuff. Then finished off with that statement. The cursing in the statement was also a bit of shock, she practically never does at all. >"and regardless, you cant have any one night stands. I wont allow it. So trying to find another wife seems really hard." I know some of you likely will call me stupid for not chasing that, but Im not really looking to change my situation outside of getting her to be more open about her kinks. If it happens, it happens; but honestly its kind of a pandoras box situation. I dont want to ruin what Ive got or hurt her, things are great and I love her. >"anyways its not like Id choose just anybody. Its a rather short list of people I trust because Id need to know that we'd mesh well." In regards to "who" she'd be willing to choose. Again, didnt pursue but will at a later time in regards to the voyeurism. I kind of think this is more of a mental list of single friends that she trusts that she's fantasized about me having sex with or comfortable with the idea of me having sex with. Dont have female friends so its not like I could ask if thats a normal female behavior to tend to fantasize/think about and online hasnt been fully helpful in that area. She has however mentioned that Im the only one she thinks about sexually at all, and outside of childish crushes from decades ago from before she met me, Im the only one she thinks about.
>>2448 Continuing, post is too big >>2386 >polygyny discussion next time Seems to be a general mix of threesomes or watching, while permanent sleeping arrangements being a indeterminate. Suggests being picking up on that Id lose my office or that we'd need a King sized bed. She seems less sure about this than other things, responses vary >Does she think of polygyny only as a "backup" for when she's out of commission, or as something she'd be happy with in general? It seems like "backup" is a bit of an excuse to hide from that she's at least interested in the idea and unsure how Id react. Overall it seems like something she'd love but doesnt want to admit >How does she think she'd get along with a co-wife? See above. Basically she'd want to vet them and be friends with them first, so theres definitely be a bit more thinking on this than even I realized. >You'd be having sex with another woman under her nose. What does she think about that? Outside of the "I want to watch you have sex" vague conversations, not necessarily sure. She seems to get off on the idea of watching me, but whether thats her or someone else she hasnt been specific on. Does seem to be excited at the prospect of me engaging in fetishistic stuff, again phrased in a way that seems to imply a girl who isnt her; anal only apparently being a favorite that drives her insane. >One big bedroom or separate bedrooms for each wife? Pros/cons? Mix, see above >How would dating to find a co-wife work? She has to be involved in the selection process, after all... She hasnt elaborated but has obviously thought/is thinking about it. >What's the best number of wives? Unable to ask, but Ill probably have the "two seats" quote thrown back at me lol >Does the first wife in a polygynous marriage ever get "buyer's remorse"? Openly seems to give off the idea that she'd want someone who she could reasonably be best friends with for the rest of her life, likely as a means of avoiding that Made sure consistently remind her, per her, that she gets to choose co-wife and that she's my favorite wife. Usually met with a mix of things from vaguely positive to teasing back, to even suddenly becoming sexually aggressive with me. >sexual dynamic/compersion As mention before, its apparently now part of my responsibilities to do so. Either as foreplay, as a general show for her, or if I happen to feel like I want to masturbate. Its definitely part of a voyueristic/compersion thing though. She wants to watch in every manner of the term and is far more excited and into it if its clear that Im into and obviously enjoying it. >mechanical wank was somewhat entertaining for her, but not pleasing enough and I got lectured on it >like I was a pornstar phoning it in lmao >loud, crazed, animalistic jacking and she goes nuts just watching me Any questions are welcome as are suggestions, and as before thanks for the input. As for questions I have: >how likely is social dynamics an issue overall for some of you? How did you guys overcome this (assuming co-wife sort of situation)? Personally I think the only thing holding her back on it is fear that Id reject her, our religion, neighbors, and that our extended family might flip out >for those of you who have, how do you deal with neighbors, relatives, kids, etc? >are there any kind of cq themed media that isnt porn to kind of help along a conversation? Personally I dont think she'd be up for watching tlc mormon stuff >for those of you who do have a polygynyist setup, how does that work in terms of jobs, insurance, etc?
>>2449 Sounds to me like your wife's into it, yeah. >"And its not like we could just pop out and pick up a second wife for you. Haha, I-I mean... How would we even do that? Haha, its not there are places where we could go and find someone and say 'h-hey, come by and fuck my husband.'." Good work Anon's wife; I had a gud laff. >how likely is social dynamics an issue overall for some of you? How did you guys overcome this (assuming co-wife sort of situation)? Don't know, never had a co-wife and am not presently contemplating such an arrangement. But I think a good rule of thumb should be that all wives like each other and are good enough friends that they can live together in the same house. >for those of you who have, how do you deal with neighbors, relatives, kids, etc? The usual method with neighbours is to just keep things low-key and only confirm the nature of the relationship if asked directly. Don't hide it (suspicious) but don't go out of your way to point it out either (obnoxious). Relatives? Who knows! At the very least, all sets of parents should know and be OK with the arrangement. Exceptional care should be taken to assure everyone involved that both women are OK with it and nobody's getting exploited. For kids, the only reference point I've seen for handling it is that the women do have limited authority over each others' kids but that the kids should call only their actual mother as mother, and the other women as "aunty <name>". Expect them to be very confused and curious as to why other kids don't have households like theirs, and for them to catch some flak at school etc. But overall the main thing is for them, like any other kids, to have their needs met in an age-appropriate way and to be raised with love in a loving household. All else pales in comparison. >are there any kind of cq themed media that isnt porn to kind of help along a conversation? There are some harem anime where one of the girls actively wants the guy to take multiple wives, and not just as a compromise. There are also a number of cuckqueany and/or multi-wife situations in normal media, but these are not going to be useful for you because they're rarely portrayed as anything other than a curiosity or plot device. I don't think you should be relying on media to drive your conversations anyway. >for those of you who do have a polygynyist setup, how does that work in terms of jobs, insurance, etc? You'll always want to check for anti-bigamy laws in your jurisdiction. As for tax, insurance, and so on, you'd have to consult knowledgeable specialists. I'd expect that tax and insurances wouldn't accept any more than one wife as a dependant, so one wife would have to be the "civilly registered" wife and the other(s) interacting with the system as individuals. That said, I've also heard of some jurisdictions with common law marriage recognising mistresses as legitimate partners for the purpose of asset disbursement upon break-up of the relationship, so you'd want to consult lawyers etc. about recognising that with cohab agreements or whatever else holds in your jurisdiction. As for finances, you could do pooled income or split expenses or something else. The important thing is that everyone agrees on and likes the arrangement. Again, I'm not really the authority here, but if you were treating this as marriage you'll want to plan properly for the costs of children from each of the wives.
Shes definitely into it Ended up having a rather serious conversation finally with a totally different tone than usual. It was actually pretty illuminating. >almost all of her unwillingess to engage in it beyond a fantasy is due to practicality issues >what would we tell the kids >how would our parents react >we obviously would have issues with going to church >hilariously most of what I mentioned here like insurance which actually freaked me out for a moment Dunno, are you on here hun? Lmao >her personal preference for even considering someone would be someone with similar mores and religious views as us, someone she knows and is good friends with, and someone that both of us would consider attractive >I suspect some of her "attractiveness" requirement is more of a compersion thing or possibly a bisexuality thing >again that dating would be a mess and isnt ideal nowadays >that she doesnt know anyone that she has a good relationship to consider for it; and that of who she knows well enough to have considered, they arent available or would be able to for whatever reason This actually surprised me, I kind of figured she had thought about various things but the way she phrased it made it sound as if she had thought about me railing her friends at length. I kind if figured when I began to think she was into cq, but to hear her more or less say it out loud was rather surprising. Still wont explicitly say such though. >sleeping all in one bed would okay, having sex all together would likely be a 'mood' thing and she'd more likely want me to bounce between their rooms with me not having one >general insecurities; that I might try to run off with second wife (we actually know someone who basically did this, but not cq stuff), that I dont find her attractive, or that second wife would steal me somehow >weird insecurities; that second wife would be a better cook, that the kids would like second wife more, or that itd turn into a collectathon Then there was some of the other stuff that had come up that makes me think shes likely planning something. >"Oh no, [third cousin with no blood relation], lost her job and will probably have to move. Do you think we could something? Maybe she could move in?" We live five states away in a worse economy, in a rural area. >"what do you think about older women?" She already knows what I think, its part of why she constantly teases me about being a few months older than me >"well if the gene therapy stuff does sterilize everyone, do you think you'd be okay with being a breeding stud?" This came out of no where and I ended up spitting my coffee all over, again something she usually doesnt discuss or even joke about at all >>2481 Figured Id ask in case anyone popping into the thread had such a setup. Thanks for the input. Kind if figured for most of it, but wanted to know from someone with firsthand experience. >if anyone is lurking and does have such a setup, please throw in your two cents
>>2449 Reading this thread, I was thinking "Okay she can't have vaginal sex, but instead of suggesting her other 2 holes, she goes straight to suggesting another woman? Is she against anal?" But >anal only apparently being a favorite that drives her insane. I know you realized her cuckquean fetish by now but that was an early telltale sign.
>>2564 >anal only apparently being a favorite that drives her insane. >I know you realized her cuckquean fetish by now but that was an early telltale sign. Is that a big cuckquean thing?
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>>2565 There's a higher-than-baseline number of anal-only enthusiasts among cuckqueans, but my feeling is that the anal-only is linked more strongly to the submissive underpinnings many cuckqueans also share. I definitely wouldn't treat anal-only as a sure sign of a latent cuckquean fetish, in any case.
>>2564 Technically could but the issue is from orgasming and, if I remember correctly, a protein in cum that would kick off labor. So basically only oral would be an option. >should have been more clear, my mistake Anal-Only as in for the implied other girl. Not that she isnt okay with butt stuff herself, but the general conversation about having a co-wife she seemed overly excited about getting to watch such. Not sure why though, will have to try and ask >a control thing? >Domsub situation between the two of them on top of the cq elements? >because its something Im nuts for? Still slowly making headway >>2565 Sometimes, but not an absolutely.
I recently found out that my fiancée is a quean after I was falsely accused from a third party that I was cheating. At the beginning I thought she was baiting me into admitting guilt but right now I am rather convinced she gets off to the prospect of me fucking other girls. How do you think I should handle this?
>>2676 Can you provide more information? Like why you believe she gets off to the idea, etc.
>>2677 Welp the "evidence" for the accusation against me was a deepfake video some anon circulated on my social circle. She used that both as fap and foreplay material.
>>2577 Update Still only her as far as things go for living arrangements. Things are going okay overall as things progress, though >Teases me more often about there being an other, older woman that I'm hypothetically involved with No such woman exists, the practical problems involved and established relationship issue being a thing >These range from slight ribbing to explicit and a rather large range if situations; from sitting on the couch and folding laundry to sexual situations >"Is your grey-haired girlfriend at work going to like your new cologne?" >"Would she beg nicely for your cum? How badly would she need it? Could she even keep up with you?" This is likely a two part thing of feeling less threatened by a woman who's older and therefore less able to necessarily steal me away with their looks, as well as that I have a slight interest in older women >Has declaratively stated that this will likely be the last baby that she'll have while also stating that *I* would be having more children in the future >Usually these statements aren't too far apart in terms of time and context of a conversation Not sure if this is brain fog and tiredness or her implying she'd rather have me knock up a second or more wife in the future Upon discussing possible issues that may be a problem in the future in regards to reckless medical people and the possible need for "clean" sperm >I'm forbidden from selling my baby batter >I'll be allowed to give it away, but only if the woman is single and she likes her >Not allowed to have a harem, but one or two other women living with us that she can be friends with would be great Think I'll continue to work on slowly finding more neutral or at least not super explicit cq material to go over with her and try and help with fostering her interest in this
>>2724 Sounds to my ears like she already has an interest very well-fostered. I assume you’re teasing her right back when she gets saucy and hypothetical? If not, try it. Jokingly enter into the world she builds. For example, you might point out that she’d have to hear you donate sperm to her new living companions, but you’d be okay with her watching to make sure it got done properly, and you appreciate her helping to screen all the eager applicants. Your work squeeze not only begs nicely for your cum, but refers to it as an elixir of life. Oh, and had you mentioned there were two work squeezes now? And so on. If and when you manage to get her blushy and flustered with this, give her a nice affectionate groping before taking the pressure off. Sounds to me like she’s having fun with it, which is a great way to take this fetish.

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