Continuing, post is too big
>polygyny discussion next time
Seems to be a general mix of threesomes or watching, while permanent sleeping arrangements being a indeterminate. Suggests being picking up on that Id lose my office or that we'd need a King sized bed. She seems less sure about this than other things, responses vary
>Does she think of polygyny only as a "backup" for when she's out of commission, or as something she'd be happy with in general?
It seems like "backup" is a bit of an excuse to hide from that she's at least interested in the idea and unsure how Id react. Overall it seems like something she'd love but doesnt want to admit
>How does she think she'd get along with a co-wife?
See above. Basically she'd want to vet them and be friends with them first, so theres definitely be a bit more thinking on this than even I realized.
>You'd be having sex with another woman under her nose. What does she think about that?
Outside of the "I want to watch you have sex" vague conversations, not necessarily sure. She seems to get off on the idea of watching me, but whether thats her or someone else she hasnt been specific on. Does seem to be excited at the prospect of me engaging in fetishistic stuff, again phrased in a way that seems to imply a girl who isnt her; anal only apparently being a favorite that drives her insane.
>One big bedroom or separate bedrooms for each wife? Pros/cons?
Mix, see above
>How would dating to find a co-wife work? She has to be involved in the selection process, after all...
She hasnt elaborated but has obviously thought/is thinking about it.
>What's the best number of wives?
Unable to ask, but Ill probably have the "two seats" quote thrown back at me lol
>Does the first wife in a polygynous marriage ever get "buyer's remorse"?
Openly seems to give off the idea that she'd want someone who she could reasonably be best friends with for the rest of her life, likely as a means of avoiding that
Made sure consistently remind her, per her, that she gets to choose co-wife and that she's my favorite wife. Usually met with a mix of things from vaguely positive to teasing back, to even suddenly becoming sexually aggressive with me.
As mention before, its apparently now part of my responsibilities to do so. Either as foreplay, as a general show for her, or if I happen to feel like I want to masturbate. Its definitely part of a voyueristic/compersion thing though. She wants to watch in every manner of the term and is far more excited and into it if its clear that Im into and obviously enjoying it.
>mechanical wank was somewhat entertaining for her, but not pleasing enough and I got lectured on it
>like I was a pornstar phoning it in lmao
>loud, crazed, animalistic jacking and she goes nuts just watching me
Any questions are welcome as are suggestions, and as before thanks for the input.
As for questions I have:
>how likely is social dynamics an issue overall for some of you? How did you guys overcome this (assuming co-wife sort of situation)?
Personally I think the only thing holding her back on it is fear that Id reject her, our religion, neighbors, and that our extended family might flip out
>for those of you who have, how do you deal with neighbors, relatives, kids, etc?
>are there any kind of cq themed media that isnt porn to kind of help along a conversation?
Personally I dont think she'd be up for watching tlc mormon stuff
>for those of you who do have a polygynyist setup, how does that work in terms of jobs, insurance, etc?