Be careful with elfs, my dear.
They may look fragile, petite and cute, but once your man gets hooked on them, there's no way back. He will not want your body again.
I go to this book reading club and one of the girls shared her story about how she lost her husband to the housekeeping elf. I'll keep this short, since we're talking breasts in this thread.
One day she caught the elf flirting with her husband, at first she thought the elf was just harmlessly playing around with him and allowed them to lay down together on her own bed while she watched. Since the elf was so slim and had small chest, she couldn't compete with her, the wife. She was the women in control.
This went on for a while and as in your case, she had more free time to herself and could do other things, like going to the book reading club, while her husband was sharing the sheets with the elf.
Now her husband don't want to comfort her anymore, he always comes up with an excuse when she asks to sleep together. When she threatened to fire the elf, her husband became furious and made her, his own wife, wear a chastity belt as a punishment.
Have you ever heard that? The female human wearing the belt?! What's going on in this world?!
It's kinda hard to explain. They want to be "raped" in a controlled way, that's one way I can describe. It's contradictory, I know. In short they want a young looking, rich man that is not shy to use force to have his way with them.
I have to be honest and say that I could be projecting, but that's how I feel when I hear my friends talking openly about their desires and I relate to them.