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Letting off steam thread. Anon 05/02/2020 (Sat) 18:50:52 No.641
Come on in, grab a coffee and relax. Now anon, tell us what is bothering you, let it all out. tell us what is stressing you, these are tense times and it is not healthy to keep it all bottled up, so go ahead, what's wrong?
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I feel frustrated because I have so much love bottled up inside me and I want to express all of it. I want to tell her that I love her, that I love her so much that I want her to be a part of my life for the rest of my life. I want to spend my days holding her hand and my nights cuddling with her. But I can't reveal these feelings without being considered a total creep. And now, I don't care if the object of my love is a doll, a robot, or a figment of my imagination, I want to tell her all of this and freely express it. It hurts so much.
Who drew that?
>>645 You had me up until: >I don't care if the object of my love is a doll, a robot, or a figment of my imagination
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I keep wasting all my valuable free time on ero and masturbating. I want to be able to live my life normally.
>>651 That's the life of a pseudo-schizo for you.
>>651 What if the object of my love was (You)?
>>660 >>661 So this board really is full of people who aren't actually comfy after all?
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>>662 You have to strike a balance to reach the /comfy/ in life. Experience struggle, so that later your rest can as careless as it can be.
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I made a false personality over the course of over a year, and then said I was going to kill myself and deleted virtually everything with it, and then I laughed because I just destroyed something I hated about myself. I feel like everyone's going to be really sad or whatever, and I realize that if I ever come back to say sorry they'll despise me for being an attention whore when in reality I was just really pissed about becoming a degenerate. Are there any books or albums to go through now that I'm no longer an avatarfag and now I'm just anon? I have a lot of time on my hands
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I've been crying for four days straight. I'm a little bitch
>>664 As Bob Ross said it best, "Gotta have opposites, light and dark and dark and light, in painting. It’s like in life. Gotta have a little sadness once in awhile so you know when the good times come. I'm waiting on the good times now." Whether we're in good or bad times, comfiness is the path to achieving a state not too dissimilar to nirvana.
It's hard to get out of my chest but, everything is just leading me to be an obese fuck. My mom cooks stuff that just makes you FAT. And I can't say no because then she feels I'm an asshole. But then when I have a mental breakdown I just start binge eating everything surrounding me. But then I feel sad after the "happiness" eating gives fade out. But then I'm fat. And every time I lose weight I just rebound it again
>>1029 >And I can't say no because then she feels I'm an asshole Have you tried before?
>>1031 Yes I did, but even then, she cooks so much, she cooks for five people when we're four. And she buys a fuckton of bread. And every time I lost weight I ended up bouncing back My shirt keeps rolling itself upwards every time I move EVERYTHING IN MY HOUSE MAKES ME FAT I CANT AVOID IT
>>1032 Just say no, friend. If your mother cannot handle that, then it's on her. It's no good to be fat, trust me.
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Same old story, nothing very interesting, we went from talking every day to not talking at all. I had to stop thinking about her, so I nuked all bridges and deleted anything related to her, I wonder if I made the right decision. It isn't some internet bullshit relationship, we were childhood friends, she was my crush for the longest time, and when I finally had a chance with her, when we finally dated, she had to leave the country... I really tried, even after that, I wanted to be friends, but I guess I'm just not cut for that. I won't let this crush me though, not only for myself, but for her and my happiest memories that I managed to share with her as well. Even if that means crying about it every night before going to sleep and going back to write shit poetry. I want to be a better, person, even if that just means hiding better how shitty I truly am. Even then, I wonder, how is she now. Does she think about me? If she does, what she thinks? She hates me? I guess I just want to say, I miss you.
>>1035 The cure for one-itis is to find someone better. >>1032 Carbs are the devil.
>>1036 Someone... Or something.
>>1037 and nobody ever found it while feeling sorry for themselves. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, keep your head up and look forward to a brighter future. You got kicked in the dick. Life does that, and you'll be kicked WORSE at some point. Keep moving.
>>1033 I did end up doing an hour on an exercise bike, but then I ended up eating two portions of pizza. I'm destined to be fat
>>1041 Why did you have to eat the pizza anon?
I have this everlasting feeling of dread shadowing over me, for whatever reason I feel as if an unavoidable doom is approaching. Can't sleep, get comfy or enjoy the things I usually do. I feel like a rat trapped in a fucking cage counting the days looking at thing that I can't achieve for the time is lost or too few.
>>1044 IT WAS THERE and I was hungry and there was nothing else to eat
>>1064 you might have cancer
>>1064 More than likely it's your instincts speaking. It may be because of the current zeitgeist or of something more personal, but I would listen to it. However, don't let it destroy you, but let it inspire you to defy fate and get ready for whatever comes.
I'm a fraud and an idiot. Spent over 8 hours on the computer (they're paying me for 5) and couldn't get any work done. I've never felt so useless in my entire life. I'm gonna get fired from the only job I could get in three years out of pure incompetence.
>>1081 You tried your best! Not everyone can be a work monkey every day of the week.
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>>641 Can't maintain friendships for shit, it's clear i'm the problem, i'm the common denominator but at the same time i don't know what i'm doing wrong, i've become somewhat of a normalfag, as in i don't come off immediately as an autist, i've had people approach me and enjoy my company, i've approached people too with good results, but only as long as we have an excuse to meet, like during classes, outside of that i don't know what to do, how do normalfags text? no one is texting me, barely anyone invites me to anything, i get ignored when i share stuff i think the other person might like, etc. I just don't know what to do, i'm getting too old for this shit.
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>want to learn how to draw >time in quarantine gave me enough tranquility to get into it >suddenly my mother wants to force me to work with my dad >start having nervous breakdowns since she doesn't just tell me that I'll be working by the next day, she said I'll be working by then but then my father doesn't want me to work or he doesn't talk upfront about it, basically a mess >can't concentrate enough to draw now thanks to having this in my head and is not leaving me tranquil, tell mother that her uncertainty doesn't let me do stuff >she asks me what am I doing >don't want to tell her that I'm into drawing because then she will start talking about it with everyone in the family, I don't want my shit to be talked about around I just want to be left alone >ignore the problem until it surfaces again and the nervous breakdown starts again I just know that if I tell them that I want to get into drawing they'll start bickering that I should learn a career or go to college, or learn something useful. I don't want to go to college, I'm not up for it, maybe learn some trades but not college, fuck that.
>>1081 What is your job?
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>>1116 I kinda have the same problem. I find that the more I reveal my true self, my true beliefs and opinions in front of people, the more I push them away, and after repeating the process in front of lots of people, only really loyal people or pushovers get left behind. Now I just maintain a certain level of fakeness around people and peel back layers of it whenever I think that someone might actually understand me and accept me, because only those people deserve to see the real me. Another thing I do is maintain purely functional friendships, ie: some friends are only for gaming, some friends are only for talking about anime, some friends are only for talking about politics, some friends are only for business/money making schemes, etc... Because it's just unrealistic to expect someone else to be similar to you in eberry way, it's hard to even get 10% out of people, especially if you're not a normalfag and you actually have a unique personality. Having said all that, I don't really have a lot of friends because I'm too introverted to even reply to texts, but when Corona-chan will be over, I will try and get some kind of social life going and finally stop being a NEET.
I've tried to make friends with someone online over the course of a few years. Somewhere along the way I deluded myself into believing that I succeeded in forming a close relationship. I didn't want to open my eyes to the fact that there never was anything that even resembled a relationship. I guess I thought we were the same, but that never was the case. I woke up from that delusion today
>all this angst over fwends Society itself is collapsing, Anons. Look at the bigger picture. Censorship, Alienation and isolation has become the norm. You have to work berry hard to maintain a real social group because atomization is the goal for (((those))) in control. Just ride the tiger and don't be judgmental of other people during these times. I don't judge any of you for what's going on. Stop getting tricked into hating people. Censorship and self-censorship is the worst thing, btw. It does the most damage to society.
>>1223 >Society itself is collapsing You've been saying that for years as if it has ever been better.
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It illustrates it a bit better when the axes are labeled.
>>1227 >image 1 I don't see the relevance of this diagram. If anything, it is a counterpoint to your argument of atomization as more asian nations have become more socially cohesive (but even then this diagram doesn't suggest a prolonged trend, simply a snapshot) >image 2 I'm assuming this is the one reposted in next reply >image 3 It's hard to say how much of this is 1) deserved distrust of American increasingly corporate media and 2) antagonized promotion of conspiracies in recent years. It's a somewhat disturbing trend, yeah. That said, the diagram has no data points for 20 years, so a before/after comparison should be taken with salt. >image 4 What does this graph suggest? I'm surprised to see how much trust Chinese have in each other... >>1228 >image 1 & 2 I think the idea that a government does (quote) "what is right just about always" is an absurd proposition to base trust measurements off. Democratic countries have multiple popular parties for a reason! I honestly agree that America (and friends) is facing a cultural issue over being divided and increasingly radialized. You are right that it is a real issue. However, berry little of those diagrams are appropriate indicators of the issue. This misleading evidence exaggerates the problem, which ironically is the kind of behavior which is making it so wide spread.
>>1234 (witnessed) >This misleading evidence exaggerates the problem, which ironically is the kind of behavior which is making it so widespread.
Eberrytime I see or hear what my parents do I keep feeling that I'm not meant for something else but the lowest of the low. Eberry time I hear them fart, I hear them laugh at a shit joke, I keep thinking: why the fuck do I bother pretending to be something I am not? I have no class, I have no manners, I'm no different than a pig smearing itself in shit. Why should I bother restraining myself and pretend to care? Why do I bother with that? Why do I bother practising something that requires discipline and delicacy when I come from something like that? I'm no progeny from someone who is quiet in mind and can appreciate aesthetics, I'm from reactionaries and somatics who aren't meant to craft something expressive or good to look at, just cattle that only has to worry from the normal day to day stuff. I'm not meant to create, I'm meant to smear myself in shit and mucus and diarrhea and vomit.
>>1248 Half of society (doubly so for high society) is humans pretending we aren't humans. Manners are a reasonable idea taken to a negative extreme. Don't cough onto people, express gratitude for favors, don't spit in their house dammit diogenes. That said, limiting yourself by your parents personalities and lifestyle is just as absurd as limiting it by society's expectations. Be you, not them.
>>1248 presuming you're not here just to shit the place up with depressive blackpilling deflect /comfy/ I'll just say this lad: You can't help your heritage, none of us can. we don't choose our families either. But what you can do is determine who you will be in life. Be the best you can be, then be a little better. Your post certainly deserves a dad-lecture so there you go haha. :^) Gambatte!!
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>>1248 Noblesse oblige. Let the beast lose.
I'm addicted to political takes but they're never good. It's just a bunch of people angry and depressed that want others to be angry and depressed too. That said, I'm a little worried about all these riots, I am going to be moving soon and I'm hoping that the new place is going to be somewhat shielded from all the societal unrest. All I've wanted in my life is to be comfy.
>>1258 There's no knowing where we're rowing.
>>1234 >>1235 Passive aggressiveness isn't comfy. You had to admit he was right, but then used a lot of words to try to detract from it.
>>1258 Comfy is living inna woods with lots of land. Split firewood, feed your chickens, collect eggs, have a good garden, trade with your neighbors. Cities are decidedly uncomfy.
>>1271 I'm just going to be moving to an 80% white methhead town with only 5 resturaunts and the closest place to do something is the gun range nearby. It's not ideal, but it's better than trying to hold a job.
>>1260 There's no knowing where we're rowing but if anyone gets in my way, hurts my family, and hurts my chances of living comfy, I have no job, gf or anything to live for, and will gladly throw my life away to hurt u back.
Did you hate yourself just for having that false personality? If so, why did you do it in the first place? I don't mean to sound judgemental, I'm just curious. As far as books, I have a shitton of pdfs lying around. What kinds of things are you into?
>>1299 Fuck, meant to reply to >>672

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