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So anons, how's your life going? Anon 07/09/2021 (Fri) 20:33:28 No.5219
Me, I'm thinking of getting the ASVAB because well... I don't exactly know where to go in my life than just being a neet and I don't want that. Might as well make my self useful huh
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>>7001 OP here, finally on my ultimate command About thay Air Force thing, yes I wood've joined them for eberrything you said but idk, people over there are snobbish. The people here (well at least the many people that I have met) are pretty chill and willing to help. Plus it helps that I am on a squadron that detaches here and there, but we are mostly on land so yeah >>7134 Fuuuuuuck broooooo, may she go in kitty heaven bro
Will be learning a trade after dropping out and being 3yrs a NEET to make myself useful in case I survive the post nuclear world. Until then I'm just gonna continue being a leech off the rotten fabric of society once graduating.
>>6872 Which country?
>>6413 hey its me! couldn't find an internship or a job at all since i posted. no one really responds and I feel too down to really inquire since it feels like most of these jobs don't go too far. Maybe I need to arrange my resume. Still not independent but I'm still gonna try to make it habben. I need to be able to find some peace in a home thats my own
>>7241 dont give up anon.
>>7242 I dont plan on doing so!
>>5219 I'll only say that my time in the navy about 10 years ago was really fantastic. I almost want to join back in again now. I'm still at age to join back if I want to. I really caused a lot of personal damage to myself being lazy in my first deployment and with my newfound passion and enthusiasm I'm positive I'd probably promote straight from PO to commission. Don't waste your younger years. If you do it's ok Anyways I didn't read through this whole thread but it sounds like you did it. congratz. go nuke if you can. you're probably smart enough. don't fail out. don't commit suicide. go be something. i think you got it in you, mate. /comf/ vibes all around go chase your dreams
>go be something I'm the one I had to be. Somewhere in Nietzsche's Thus Spoke Zarathustra Don't pretend to be something else than you. It sounds like a cheesy sport brand slogan but it's important to be /comfy/dent with yourself anyway the fails you must (and you will) encounter in your life. Stay strong and loyal to yourself. I sometimes think I burned my young years being in the destruction of myself (you know, sex drug and rock'n roll cacas). Doing drugs, don't care about education, cannot maintain good relationship with loved ones... Then I grew up. I now take the life with more pragmatism, stopped being a nihilist quack (more a cynical cool dude). Had a decent job, take care of my family, have nice hobbies, shrimple pleasures and have a way healthier life. Sure I have regrets but life goes on and the past cannot be changed, so I work to build a better future as I enjoy the present. You can do it. We all can do it frens.
>>7256 hey i didn't mean it in a way like he NEEDS to go be something other than himself. i was only promoting that he become the best version of himself that he can be. military helps with that. turned me around and saved me from an early grave anon friend, i want to make sure you're going to be ok. liste to some of your online friends. we want what's best and (worst) for you, depending on who you get to respond. i won't go back on my statement. go be yourself and be who you want to be. or at least try. if you ever stop trying, you'll fall deep into a place you won't easily get out of. past your ideology, past your addictions, past your inadequacies, past your ineptitude; persevere. and you can come out on top one day. i believe in you :)
>>5219 Bland and boring. But that's better than when I was working for about ten years. I don't want to be a live-alone wagie ever again. I'll leech with disabilitybux the rest of my life if I can.
>>7256 >Sure I have regrets but life goes on and the past cannot be changed, so I work to build a better future as I enjoy the present. I needed to hear this today, thanks.
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>>6373 Anon, look up the book Rational Recoberry by Jack Trimpey in regards to your internet addiction. I used it to stop my serious PMO addiction after years abuse. It's the only thing that works imo and it is actually just a berry shrimple mental technique. After using 'AVRT' for months I rarely even think of PMO and don't need any blocks on my devices. Here's a full vid on it too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HVxWYUvXoXU Good luck anon, you won't need it.
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Beginning to discover Christianity. Berry difficult here at the start, while still addicted to 2D & 3D lewdz as well as being a lazy brat overall. And prone to information overload without putting any of it into practice due to being overloaded with information.
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This stays on my chest all month.
>>7588 What is it?
>>7590 Heart monitor. Had berry high blood pressure readings, over 180/110 some days, without three different prescriptions.
>>7054 you can usually fix the hinge by tightening the hinge brackets inside of the laptop
>>7588 >>7591 Hope you'll doing well anon. Take care of you. >>7555 Nice trinity numbers here, see it as a sign of providence to help you fight your bad habits. Remember Jesus won't judge you but will be forever on your side to help you as long as you're willing to help yourself. Keep it up and follow the rightful path. | \ / .---. '-. | | .-' ___| |___ -= [ ] =- `---. .---' __||__ | | __||__ '-..-' | | '-..-' || | | || ||_.-| |-,_|| .-"` `"`'` `"-. .' '.
Feel empty. Been struggling to find a job and trying to finish a long overdue course that I want to finish. Sometimes I just freeze when my mom talks about her illness. Lately I feel hurt that someone who I looked up just died because of some drunk driver and eberry time I see her kiddos being angels. Makes me feel like caca. Right now I just want to find a job and maybe a place where I can just be alone and at peace. Odd that at this point I just want to find a peaceful place for myself. Guess spending my childhood and teenage life in pain and always hurt because of illness has somewhat made me yearn for that peace.
>>7604 Thank you for the kind words and the neat ASCII art! Sorry I didn't reply sooner, didn't want to say anything before anything habbened. Started going to church and Bible study, that was neat and I intend to keep going back. Had an 'episode' where I was trying way too hard to combat my strongest sin. I need to not expect perfection from myself and to turn to Jesus when I stumble.
>How's life going? Alright, about to start two more classes in the middle of the semester, they're both electives so hopefully it doesn't quack up my AnP grade too much.
Anyone knows where /kind/ went?
>>7635 Switching hosts I think. Check the /shelter/ thread.
Tired and feeling hopeless about the future.
>>7645 There always will be better tomorrows anon. Don't let despair take you down. have some rest, look behind you all the way you've walked, then go further. Don't be insecure about the future, build yours.
My dog went for the big sleep today, and I'm really sad but also grateful for the times we had and I just hope she's comfy wherever she is
>>7649 Condolences, Anon.
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>>7649 I grew up with dogs so I have seen some oh them take the road to dog paradise. Nothing more heratbreaking than seeing you beloved doggo fall asleep forever. I'm almost crying writting this. Don't be sad friend, all dogs go to heaven as they are blessed creatures.
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>>7648 I still live with my aging parents even though my 20s are over, and right when I start becoming more independent eberrything goes to crap. I've saved up a good amount of money, and it's worth less and less as time goes on. I don't see many viable options for the future at this point. >>7649 Sorry to hear that. Dogs are special and deserve appreciation, and it's tough when they go. I'm sure you'll be able to see her again someday.
Hello anons. My heart is somewhat heavy as I write this, I do not have anyone that I feel comfortable sharing this with so I am coming here under the cover of anonymity to exchange my thoughts and seek yours on this subject. Given that: Masturbation is a sin Sex outside of marriage is a sin Engaging in prostitution is a sin As a man I have a natural sex drive I wood like help and advice on defeating my sexual desires without committing sin. If I abstain from masturbation, I can refrain from engaging in sexuality for around a period of a week with little difficulty. After that initial 1 week period, it starts to encompass my whole life. I have an erection when I wake up eberry morning, and I get more throughout the day, at least one an hour and more if I have to interact with any girl under 30. I pray for help in keeping the sexual thoughts away, but it feels like I'm fighting a losing battle and I will relapse at some point no matter what. The longest I've been able to abstain from anything sexual was when I was an atheist and I lasted around a year. After a period of a few months, paradoxically my whole life was concerned with sex, I was not having orgasms however the only thing I had on my mind eberry day was "I need to find a girl to have sex with" (which never worked), eberrything was secondary to that. It culminated with me getting cock-teased by a girl I was exchanging with for around a week, getting fed up when I realized I was just getting taken along for a ride then seeking the services of a prostitute, which broke my abstinence and made me lose my virginity, if that concept even exists for a man. I regret the choices I made. After this chapter in my life, I concluded that the healthiest thing to do was to masturbate once a month to get it out of my system and to be able to live my life without being entranced by sex all the time. Eventually I relapsed and was engaging with porn at least 10 times a week, until I found the faith which helped knock it back down to something more reasonable like 2-4 times a month. However, sin is sin and I wood like to be fully rid of it. I know that the shrimplest answer is to marry a girl, whoever that does not appear to be possible for me (it appears that my fate is to be an incel which I've come to terms with), so it seems like I've come to an impasse. I can't masturbate without committing sin, and I don't have a way to relieve myself of those sexual desires legitimately. However, if I don't relieve myself of it, it quickly starts to take over my life (I had begun to call the action of masturbation "satiating the beast" in my head). I don't know what to do. I remember seeing this anon who castrated himself on old 8chan years ago and thought he had lost his mind then, though now eberry day I start to understand more and more why he wanted to be rid of his sexual desires. Additional question: Why did God give me (and other men) such a strong sex drive and at the same time put me and a lot of other men (40% of men under 30 reported no sex in the past year in a study around 2018 I believe and that was before the corona lockdowns which must have made that number shoot up even more) in an era where it is extremely difficult to rid yourself of this desire without committing sin?
>>7660 Maybe this advice can help you: The one who is struggling with desires should eat less. "Narrated `Abdullah: We were with the Prophet (ﷺ) while we were young and had no wealth. So Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."" (Bukhari 5066) Therefore a reminder that fasting is the way to control sexual desire for the one who is unable to get married. >Why did God give me (and other men) such a strong sex drive and at the same time put me and a lot of other men in an era where it is extremely difficult to rid yourself of this desire without committing sin? It is difficult, God created us with desires in a way that they can seem berry powerful. But He has also given us the tools and the ability to defeat them (namely: through faith, prayer and patience). It doesn't even really matter to God whether you manage to give up masturbation or not, all He wants is to see you try. If you keep failing and keep trying and keep failing, you may not have achieved what you wanted to achieve in a worldly sense, but with God you will have been successful. That's because you made an effort for His sake. You've fulfilled your duty.
It's all going to caca and I'm laughing. I got out of high school right after COVID started. I found out that my parents were abusive through beatings during that time. Was almost homeless after my "mother" threatened to kick me out because she wanted to sleep in my bedroom instead of in the wood be dining room. I'm currently processing the neglect and abuse dealt to me at a berry young age and it interferes with my ability to get a job. But noone cares and eberryone uses me as a punching bag now. Truly there's no escape from the honkening. On the bright side, I'm going to try to get my Cdl and go otr Trucking to get away. Hopefully I can stick with it and put the majority of the money I make into crypto and try my luck. Maybe it will get better.
>>7673 >I'm going to try to get my Cdl and go otr Trucking to get away not a bad plan. i hear they make really good money. just dont do drugs on the road and youll be successful. it amazes me how they park those damn things in the smallest of spots, they are so massive.
>>7674 Yes I figured the job wood be best for my temperament and I don't have to spend money on rent or utilities because I'll live in the truck. Also as a bonus I can travel, and since I don't have anything I want to go back too I can spend my vacation time in potentially interesting places. I'm also convinced I have ptsd and am looking to get diagnosed and get a service cat to keep me calm so even if the trucking company I go with and any hotels I stay at dont allow pets they have to accommodate. >it amazes me how they park those damn things in the smallest of spots, they are so massive. I've heard it can get really tight especially in old cities. Just takes some practice.
>>7675 I just found out only dogs and miniature horses are considered service animals. That's quacking bullcaca godamn it I hate the government.
Life in Tokyo is starting to get boring
>>7720 I wood be delighted to switch places, and you can come to LA fren. Why are you so bored in literally the world's largest megalopolis, Anon?
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>>7721 Don't get me wrong, Tokyo is perhaps one of the greatest cities worldwide and I'm really glad I could come here. It's just that, after some months, the culture shock starts to hit and you start to long for your home country. The charm begins to wear out, new things are harder to came across and you start to notice more the bad things than the good things. Also, I feel like the language barrier is keeping me from interacting more with other people and enjoying media, like manga, or places and events, like, museums or exhibitions. So far, I have nothing but good memories here, and I'm sure I will miss my life here when I move elsewhere. Living here for this long was a great experience, so now my desire is to visit more and more of the world. Getting to know L.A. wood definitely be nice.
>>7653 >Dogs are special kek. dogs are useless mentally goofy mutants. but more worrying is the mental hobbitry of their owners.
>>7726 ok, replying to myself. thanks for the censorship. last post here. never see you again.
>>7727 kbai
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>>7726 Sounds like projection. Dogs evolved alongside humans in a way that no other animal has and are possibly the first species ever domesticated. They really are man's best friend.
I see the filter is filtering as intended
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>>7729 Anon clearly don't know what is talking about. Dogs are a gift made to humanity.
>>7729 Evolutionism isn't real, it's a fairy tale.
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>>7736 Eberry time I've ever been near a dog they either chase me or growl at me. How do I get them to like me.
>>7726 Humans that cannot show empathy towards companion animals are inline with having the emotional intelligence of an insect. So many of them become murderers, because they only think of what's useful to them in that moment. No attachments, no feelings, just selfish existence.

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