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Welcome to /comfy/

For advertising use the designated thread >>1157 no more advertising The rules are: >Follow the global rules >Take it easy >Keep it SFW >No rabble rousing That means no unrelated political posts, intentionally provocative posts, posts insulting someone's race or religion or promoting committing crimes >No boat rocking That means no uncalled for insults, rudeposting, or instigating drama. other nice boards: https://late.city/late/ https://kind.moe/kind/ https://otterchan.net/wakaba.html

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The adventures of the Traveller and Genet Season 2 Previous season: >>4369 The stage is set ten years after the encounter with the wicked merchant Olivarius:
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Tea or coffee?

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Tell me a short story from your life. Anything mundane, exciting, nostalgia, emotional. Literally anything as long as it's a vaguely happy one.

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Post here when you visit /comfy/ Thread #5 Sunshine edition Previous: >>3183

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the kind of resume and interview that win jobs...what is it? what do employer sees from you and your resume except the amount of pocket money they have and how cheap and affordable you are to their sordid miserable business?

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Comfy Wallpapers

Post comfy wallpapers, looking at the same screen eberry day can be tiresome.

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daily checkpoint

what did you do today? and how was your today? and date
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>Nanochan base >remove name, email and sage options (no attention-seeking hobbits!) >remove eberry formatting option except quotes and links (isn't plaintext UTF-8 enough?) >remove images (they are more often than not cacaty irrelevant wojaks and avatars) >no /pol/ board Ah yes, perfect-chan. Don't you agree?

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So anons, how's your life going?

Me, I'm thinking of getting the ASVAB because well... I don't exactly know where to go in my life than just being a neet and I don't want that. Might as well make my self useful huh

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Book discussion

‘’’Book thread!’’’ Anon, what is the best book you have ever read? Why do you like it? Has it changed the way you view the world?

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/Comfy/ room

Is your room /comfy/ as of now? Are there anything you will do to make it even more so?
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Chats

Hey I'm new does anybody want to talk?

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Chill Music

Since this is /cafe/, how about a thread of music to relax to with a hot drink while it's raining outside? Here's some Café de Touhou to start.
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How can I have my own board?

I ma new here and I want to to create a board but idk how, can someone help me?

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barely ever touch women

I just turned 41, I have been alone so long. I can talk them up and get to know them but going on dates or being in a relationship never happens. They seem repulsed by me if we ever hang out. The only times I have touched a woman in the past 15 years is drunk at a bar or once from tinder. I am so tired of being rejected. I am a decent looking guy, 6' tall white economically stable enough I am just tired of feeling like a loser. I live in Chicago plenty of decent women here but it's eating away at my self esteem and making it even harder to get with them. I feel so pathetic no woman has ever been in love with me and the women I like always reject me. How do I change

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What is the meaning of life?

Do you know it?
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How was your day

or what did you do today ? i did dopamine detox today
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test

test

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I miss traditional, semi-anonymous forums. Are there any that don't suck in the current year?
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cozy/positive picture or videos thread

post your positive or cozy videos! I personally made a telegram channel for posting positive things if you want to join t.me/PositiveTimes anyways i hope you have a nice day

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i hope you are doing great :)

hello whoever you are! i dont really you know.. KNOW anything about you. but i do know that you are special. you mean something to someone out there. even if you dont feel like it now, you are worth something. eberrything you do, eberrything you say, eberrything you want to do or aspire to do, means something to someone out there. if you're stressed right now, relax, you deserve a break. eberryone does. surround yourself with friends that care about you, because one day you will feel like complete caca, but its good to have friends to fall back on if something like that ever does happen. again, i dont know who you are. you might have someone special in your life or not. who knows, but if you dont.. thats fine. because one day, fate will fall upon you and you will find someone that loves you near and dear. you will find that someone that you can cuddle in bed with on a rainy day. so come on anon, chest out chin up and get out there and accomplish your dreams! we love you, random anon. we will always accept you and you are loved no matter what. <3
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heh following the smart one's advice now. also more succesful. "if you think you can, you will" why am i feeling more quacked then? i guess advice is person dependent. also mostly useless. "Toxic positivity". A new kind of caca invented to stop me from blabbering. So now my negativity is valid? So now i have to "start finding help from friends"? What will they say? Be positive? What else? Just finding people who cancels each other. Well, good "exposure" theraphy. Genuine human emotion. It's all tiring though. Guess it's all about luck.

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Visualizing

Tell me about your ideal comfy life. >ideal house >ideal gf >ideal source of income >ideal country to live in >ideal average day

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Hdllo comfy, any ideas to make the image in the left to the one in right but also from several bunch of angles? also means that the whole motion will also adhere to the perspective of sorts? oh, also, MaNUALLY. i figured you can motion the system thru basic perspective idea but then the movement don actually follow perspective of sorrs...

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can happiness be found outside of the self?

think about it- if society stopped programming people with a feeling of lack, of disatisfaction, and people in general began to realize they don't need to spend money buying useless caca to feel good, and could find happiness within, then what wood happen to society? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qn_NLUX3TuU

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bad move from BO

>no more advertising why not? it was a good idea to have a containment thread. now they will just create new threads for their sites.

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animu thread

Post here whenever you finished watching an anime. I'm very new to it so I don't think I could fit on /animu/, less /a/, so I figured I may make a thread here. Watched pic related recently, it was very neat but I didn't like the ending a lot, seems like the rewards Chihiro got were too given at the palm of her hand there. Other than that it was pretty neat and reminded me to care about your friends.

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Post interesting wikipedia articles pls

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Comfy Philosophy Thread

Eberry day or week or whatever we review one passage from the Zhuangzi and other comfy philosophy or religious books: Be still, be pure, do not labor your body, do not churn up your essence, and then you can live a long life. When the eye does not see, the ear does not hear, and the mind does not know, then your spirit will protect the body, and the body will enjoy long life. Be wary of what is within you; block off what is outside you, for much knowledge will do you harm. this passage is from Zhuangzi Chapter 10: Let it be, leave it alone (Burton Watson translation) do not labor your body = no employment block off what is outside you, for much knowledge will do you harm = no education then the next passage says: Then I will lead you up above the Great Brilliance to the source of the Perfect Yang; I will guide you through the Dark and Mysterious Gate to the source of the Perfect Yin. Heaven and earth have their controllers, the yin and yang their storehouses. You have only to take care and guard your own body; these other things will of themselves grow sturdy. You have only to take care and guard your own body; these other things will of themselves grow sturdy. = no training What is the context? The Yellow Emperor had ruled as Son of Heaven for nineteen years, and his commands were heeded throughout the world, when he heard that Master Guang Cheng was living on top of the Mountain of Emptiness and Identity. He therefore went to visit him. “I have heard that you, sir, have mastered the Perfect Way. May I venture to ask about the essence of the Perfect Way?” he said. “I wood like to get hold of the essence of Heaven and earth and use it to aid the five grains and to nourish the common people. I wood also like to control the yin and yang in order to ensure the growth of all living things. How may this be done?” Master Guang Cheng said, “What you say you want to learn about pertains to the true substance of things, but what you say you want to control pertains to things in their divided state.6 Ever since you began to govern the world, rain falls before the cloud vapors have even gathered; the plants and trees shed their leaves before they have even turned yellow; and the light of the sun and moon grows more and more sickly. Shallow and vapid, with the mind of a prattling knave—what good wood it do to tell you about the Perfect Way!” The Yellow Emperor withdrew, gave up his throne, built a solitary hut, spread a mat of white rushes, and lived for three months in retirement. Then he went once more to request an interview. Master Guang Cheng was lying with his face to the south.7 The Yellow Emperor, approaching in a humble manner, crept forward on his knees, bowed his head twice, and said, “I have heard that you, sir, have mastered the Perfect Way. I venture to ask about the governing of the body. What should I do in order to live a long life?” Master Guang Cheng sat up with a start. “Excellent, this question of yours! Come, I will tell you about the Perfect Way. The essence of the Perfect Way is deep and darkly shrouded; the extreme of the Perfect Way is mysterious and hushed in silence. Let there be no seeing, no hearing; enfold the spirit in quietude, and the body will right itself. Be still, be pure, do not labor your body, do not churn up your essence, and then you can live a long life. The Yellow Emperor has wageslaved as a ruler for 19 years. He seeks advice from The Master. The Master rejects him. The Emperor resigns and lives as a NEET for 3 months. The Master accepts him and teaches him the way.

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Comfy vidya thread

ITT we discuss video games that possess the comfy factor. For me it's all manners of RTS games, taking time to gather resources and build a cool base is great fun. Driving games are cool too, I have fond memories of pic related (although I was pretty bad at it as a kid).

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how do i place texts and frame objects relatives to each other like this? how do i decide where does text A and B goes to in a page or frame? naturally frame to frame means position in time, but i cant quite understand how does text places themselves in that "time positioning" to be somewhat good/readable/ interesting source: asobi asobase

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how do i acquire the rights to use an existing song for my commercial project eg a long running manga such as a teaser trailer or promotional music video? songs like paramor or japan's uverworld? how much do you pay?
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how do i, not change my manga characters that may just suck anyway
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hello comfy, any one here knows about practicing programming? Like practice optimizing your codes and stuffs like that but i feel like i could never know the best code and thinks like that...
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Minecraft Documentary is calming

I dont know why but this minecraft documentary gives me so much calm and hope. It reminds me of greater times. ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rUXqv4HYRGE )

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cute /positive apu and pepo dump

dump your cute and positive pepe photos or videos! telegram @cozytimes
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So.. I want to run my own board website

So yeah, I kinda want to rub a board website but I kinda have a few questions to y’all : - Imageboard or textboard ? I alr have a textboard set up but I’m not sure this is still a good idea - How to get people obviously ? - What really makes, for you, a good website ? Cause it depends on a lot of stuff and I want to make something nice for eberryone ><

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Why /comfy/ on 8kun died

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What happened to that place? I used to frequent that board and one day I woke up and it was just gone. Any one have any idea?

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New Home

This seems like a cozy board, can I stay here?

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GALLOTORO!!!

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Super Pokebro

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Comfy Baking, Brewing, and Cooking

Baking, brewing, and cooking are very important hearth-building and health-building skills. They are a surefire way to make yourself /comfy/, Anon! What are you baking, brewing, or cooking at the moment? How is it coming out? What will you be trying next time? Is there anything you'd like to try improving? Is there something you'd like to learn? Maybe you have something you'd like to teach us? I tried some old things and new things today! Pics related are: >the bread I made earlier today; a simple white cobb loaf. This was the first time I was just able to make it from memory. It felt great to be able to just reach for the ingredients and go through the motions. As luck would have it, the prove went well and the slashes formed up beautifully. I was worried that the crumb inside would be a little wet but it turned out very nice with a good chewy crust. The loaf is wrapped in beeswax cloth now so I can eat it over the week. I'm considering getting a sourdough starter going but I don't know if I'm good enough to handle it yet. >my first attempt at glazing carrots Apparently glazing (which I have found out is different from caramelising) is a basic technique that even professionals find difficult to get perfect every time. I think my first attempt here had just a touch too little water and a touch too little sugar, though I reckon I got the butter correct. See how the finished carrots don't have an even glaze? They still tasted very good with some parsley and finishing salt. Next I'm going to try blanching with asparagus. >sous vide pork tenderloin >fell for the sous vide meme Yes, and I love it! Weirdly, the garlic I put on these pork tenderloins was stained bluish-green by the other herbs during the water bath, but they cooked down to a tasty colour during the two minute finishing sear. I had the pork together with the carrots for dinner. They tasted great and I felt a great upswell of wellbeing after I finished them. Your turn, Anon!

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Comfy Images

Post snug pictures. They don't have to be rainy or cold-looking, even though it helps.

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Riddle thread

Post your best riddles here

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post your cte cat gifs

cute

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Comfy Animals

:)

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A story. One sentence at a time. Previous threads: >>4248 >>4333 Once upon a time there was a mighty tree waving in the wind.

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ssurtukhmgkdukgkx

Weiterleitungshinweis Die von dir besuchte Seite versucht, dich an https://pixabay.com/images/search/nature/ weiterzuleiten. Falls du diese Seite nicht besuchen möchtest, kannst du zur vorherigen Seite zurückkehren.

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Gib cute bunnies only

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Social media

Do you anons use social media or other forums where sign up is required?

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A story. One word at a time. Previous thread: >>4248 Today

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Why has 8kun become a haven for depraved degenerates (NSFW boards)? Has it always been like that? >Pic for asthetics.

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Thoughts and opinions

A common proverb shared on the internet, thus: "If your profile picture is from an anime, your opinion doesn't count." Thoughts on said proverb?

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Ahoy, comfy friends! The Infinity Cup, "the world's most comfiest tournament", is about to begin anew! We would really like it if you could come join us, whether as a team or for the fun of it! https://anon.cafe/icup/ is the place!

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Infinity Cup poll

Hey guys, /icup/ here with a question on how we're going to handle the next iteration of the Infinity Cup ( https://anon.cafe/icup/ ) We're trying to poll whether certain boards are interested in playing in the cup, or if there's some specific team that you'd like to see play. If you want to, please answer or add your own answer to the poll in https://poal.me/6x3j1u

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A story. One word at a time. Once

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Dreams thread, the /comfy/ awake in the sleep

It begun with a small tale of an old man dressed in eastern clothes, how he described the actions of a hero who never returned. As he was speaking actions of martial arts and combat were in the background, sketches of them, until he names the title of the event entuthiastically, where the characters strike a pose and the art gets detailed in the middle of the screen. The last segment of it there was a map like thing, it showed the progress that was made in the story, the last bit the protagonist made was on a boat that was turned upside down, the bodies were floating under it. For eberry step before it, a small scene wood happen in the map, the last scene had the hero pushing over the giant baron from a cave and going to the coast to get to his their boat Before getting out of the sea, there were two demons protecting a pagoda thing in a berry abrupt cliff with a thin bridge. One of them had one arm as the wing of a dragon and red, he protected the door, the other one was green and had tenctacle like hair and protected the bridge. The villain in the tower always has a story of where the characters that dissapointed him are thrown to a pit where the character's mother died. it consists of a destroyed staircase where the way out is by jumping to the cliffs that have been separated. Many just end up falling to their deaths. And in one point, the red winged man gets sent to it, tries to get out, only for some force to slap him on the head and his skull to hit a wall and slides to his death There is also at one point a baron of hell like creature emerging from one giant hole, only his head is seen, but it's huge and hides the sun in a moment. The sky was dry orange and the ground was like the grand canyon. Imagine Mario Kart 64's Yoshi's Canyon with all the roads being small and falling from them sending to your doom, it was like that but with more highs and lows, a pagoda/eastern castle hidden between the mountains, and small bridges and ropes connecting small locations The appeal of the story is that it was narrated by anons from one imageboard since many years and as it went on it got expanded. story of one man who went to the island of twisted cliffs and canyons to get revenge at those who killed his mother. The visuals were similar to those old greek myth movies from the 50s. The character may've worn a torso armor that only covered his torso, and brown leather shorts, but he did look like a greek warrior from those movies with his hair curled and an absolute unit. Unrelated, I was stuck on a high tree at some point, like 20 meters tall. I asked a man down there if he could call the firefigters for help. I descended with a rope tight in my waist. When I got to the ground the sky was oddly clear, a colour combination between light blue and chrome. I came across an old man, we exchanged some letters and he gave me the name for a writer of a book. then I walked to the horizon where there was more light blue/chromed things, probably a city, probably a pier. probably a path in the middle of the water, probably a path with the waters next to it and leading to the city. Been a while since I had dreams like this, I think it's due to practising something I like to call "Musical Visualisation" where I imagine a setpiece, scene, or environment from the music I'm listening. This time it was pic related, I think getting to focused on Corona-Chan's journey is letting me forget the things I was capable or I am capable of.

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Make your own country/region thread

A large territory comprising of green steppes in a center strip, unforgiving mountain ranges along the west making a natural border that prevents access to a large sea aside from a chokepoint that allows entry to the region, many winding canyons and valleys to the southeast, lush flowing rivers coming in from the north that drain to the southeast, the southwest a dusty and hilly region, and northeast an inhospitable desert that gets covered in snow during Winter. Within this are three loose ethnic territories united by a network of 5 major ceremonial cities and trading centers a la Persepolis. Mongoloid, Nordid, and Semitic traders pass through commonly through the northeast and north with a good portion laying down roots. Non-descript Aryan/Slavic hunter-gatherers that live mostly nomadic lives and are the major demographic living on the steppe and dusty hills, settle down in a new place once a year to farm and move on leaving some permanent structures, omnivore diet, uses wagons and horseback to transport, weak central culture and no dominant religion. Caucasians who are mostly nomadic in the lower mountains and bases with some and eat nothing but meat and dairy, make up the majority transport themselves by horses, few worldly possessions, regard themselves as a specialty warrior society like Cossacks. Iranian type of people who live in caves and crude houses in the valleys and canyons and to the northeast, pescetarian diet out of circumstance with red meat being a luxury, wary of outsiders and don't interact with one another as much as the other three do, have basic boats for lakes and rivers, modes of transport is yak and camel. Religion are largely shamanistic and monotheistic with a minority of a polytheistic one and and eastern philosophical religion. The rule of law is laid down by the king who below him has governors and tribal leaders who pay tribute to him based on their possessions in coinage. While it doesn't matter what religion and race the king is he has always been one of the Aryan hunter-gatherers and practiced the monotheistic religion. Architecture is a mix between Armenian, Kartvelian, and Iranian styles with basic mudhuts and strawhuts. The language is masculine, smooth, and consonant-heavy, a mix of Yaghnobi and Kartvelian with an alphabet that mimics that of the Semites' but there is no uniform one due to traders and learning what each sound makes then transmorphing to their own; from west to east it shifts from cuneiform to phonetic.

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Hey anons! Are you feeling fine? What's going on in your life?

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I am new to anon.cafe, can you sage threads here? If yes, how?
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>>4107 He that hath ears to hear, let him hear. There is a difference between the papist pagan system with her protestant whore daughters and christians who know the Lord Jesus Christ.

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Please give ear to this message. It's high time.

Anons, it's high time to get right with God, the Lord Jesus Christ. Things are happening quickly. Obey the gospel and you shall be saved! “Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized eberry one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call.” - Acts 2:38-39 The only thing that will matter 10000 years from now is whether or not you have obeyed the Lord Jesus Christ.

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Question

What does the checkbox do?

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Newbie

Greetings, anons. I am new here. Looking forward to spending time with you here on this board. See you around!

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Account on anon.cafe

What is the purpose of having an account on anon.cafe? Are there extra features available for people with accounts?

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good afternoon, I am relaxed

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Tendies with hunny mussy, fries and dewie. ;)

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helllo how should you plan your one shot comics/debut so it can garner attention and crowd my plan is to have like 20-30 pages like most one shot but idk how should i plan the content to be as exciting before running full series(because im reenacting JUMP's accepting through one shot and similarly before series and also cuz i have no idea if a series is good anyway) cant wait for your input!

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hi i am a fledgling aspiring artists doing csrtoon anime stuff... how do i find out the next trending style and and topic/keyword what people wanna see and enjoy? i have youtube account to draws but it never get much traffic or crow and shilling doesnt make much either... what should i do

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Reminder that life is great

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Doing comfy things is nice, but how about doing FUN and EXCITING things? ITT please talk about what you like to do for fun. Maybe we can even do some fun stuff together. Me, I like boats. I like swimming too. It's fun to be in the water in general, plus it's good exercise. I plan to get a boating license some time, although it's an expensive hobby.

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night walking, walking at night

Post pics from your /nightwalk/s. What do you like about nightwalking? For me it's the fresh air, the comfy lights, and the feeling of walking down empty streets that are normally busy, feeling totally alone.

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Ship thread

It's a shame that shipposting seems to be frowned upon here, I think ships can certainly be /comfy/.

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Post Parables, Allegories, Fables, Koans

When my mind is troubled, I make a little story in my head to simplify my situation. When I share them with others, I never explicitly state the moral so they can take away their own. It's a very comfy thing for me, it's how I express myself like some people do with poetry or doodles. I think if more people made a habit or practice of it the world would be a comfier place. If any of you do something similar, or would like to try it, I'd love to hear what you have to say. Here's a little story I've been rolling around in my skull for a few years now: A long time ago, a man built a brick wall in a wild field. Those who walked past it would often say, "look at this great symbol of order in a disorderly world!" Many years passed, and the wall crumbled to a scarcely recognizable pile of rubble. Passerby would shake their heads and frown at the sight. "No matter how men may labor to assemble some comforting order, nature will work ten times as hard for ten times as long to return it to disorder. How tragic!" As the wall finally turned to dust, the earth sighed. How nice it felt to become that much more neat and round.

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the past , the present & the future

Why does the world have to be so cruel to us? I just wanna have fun and post with anons in peace but they keep deplatforming us, smearing us, running fed ops against us etc. Even if the webring becomes a stable home now, we've lost so many anons and communities over the years that'll never come back. 8chan has no clear successor which caused anons to be splintered far and wide around the internet with little ways to get back together again. I remember back on 8chan in around 2015, on the board list the top 50 boards each had hundreds and hundreds of users and tons of activity. Now no boards outside of /cow/, /v/ and /a/ seem to have any significant userbase left and you can easily go days or weeks without one post on many of them. Basically the question is: How do we bring back the golden days? Can things ever go back to how they were?