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Meeting Christian Women Anonymous 09/05/2022 (Mon) 00:59:51 ID: 0880c1 No.17430
How does even meet good Christian women as someone in their twenties? At the church I go to, all of the girls are either too young (ten years younger than me) or are already married or dating someone. Most of the people I am friends with there have girlfriends and it is really making me want to have a female companion, especially since they keep saying that I need to find one. How did you guys find your girlfriends or wives? Up until now I've been basically just trying to find the Kingdom and hoping that all else will be added to me in time, which I still believe, of course. I've made a lot of like-minded male friends in the last year, but no women other than other guys' girlfriends.
I feel like God won't give me a girlfriend and i know how pathetic this topic is (if i wasn't anonymous i wouldn't be talking about this) but it's a big part of my dream in life to have a pretty girlfriend, and i had one when i was a teen but she became difficult and i was mean to her as payback and the relationship went bad, after i left, she became a huge whore and slept with every guy her brother brought home. How do i know the same won't happen with whatever conservative woman that takes a chance on me? Mark 10:8 and the two will become one flesh.’d So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” I don't understand this because men and women have clearly been separated, many have been divorced. There are some awful men and women out there. Since God won't give a girlfriend i become my own pathetic idea of a lustful God through porn, and make sex accessible to me, and in doing so i don't need anyone. But my porn addiction has hurt some of my relationships and almost got me arrested had it not been for the mercy of God and other people. You can see how this is becoming a dangerous self fulfilling prophecy. I don't think i can stop masturbating, almost all my life is lewd entertainment, i don't think i can stop, i claim to be Christian but don't follow Jesus, i rather not speak of convictions because i am not an example of holy living. I claim to be against the satanic world but i also indulge in porn, the male side of the modern world. What time i spend not using porn i spend studying the bible with other Christians, Christianity is my hobby not my moral compass, and i have failed it. Some women complain that men only want them for sex, yet at least that is something, women don't want anything from me. Why did God have to make women and men duel each other for sex. I feel like it's a hopeless situation, women are almost biologically designed to value whoredom and our society promotes that.
>>14879 >Why did God have to make women and men duel each other for sex. I'd say don't blame God for Satan & humanity's sins OP, for a start. I don't have a solution to what Satan and the globalist kikes have done to destroy our White Christian civilization known as The Western Tradition, but it's plainly ended thanks to them. War is coming, so once TSHTF, this Satanic-inspired, kike-led thotdom on the part of our women will instantly cease so there's that, Anon. I'd encourage yourself with that. As for the porn, just this: Return to your first love. Jesus Christ is more important than any woman, and your own flesh can be controlled if you simply treat it like a slave and not coddle it. God bless you Anon. Keep your faith and share it with others.
>>14879 If God wont give you a girlfriend then maybe theres a reason. Maybe you arent meant to be in a relationship yet for whatever reason. If you ever detox from porn for any serious amount of time then you need to seriously think about what purpose God may have for you. Also you said that lewd entertainment is almost your entire life, if thats the case then you need to create a new life for yourself. Find a hobby, sport, or movement to get involved in. Anything to keep you out of the house and away from porn and lewd content. I spent almost a week out in my garage working for upwards of 6 hours at a time on various projects, that entire week i didnt watch porn once and didnt even feel tempted. If it werent for my injured eye id still be doing it (ps always wear safety glasses). If youre overweight then start working out, you dont have to go to the gym just go out and jog and if you live near a park then go there. If youre mechanically inclined then save up for some budget power tools like a angle grinder and drill and start making stuff out of wood and metal. Or join a cause and start helping them, or hell create your own, the world could always use more based street preachers. Worst case scenario grab a trash bag and pointy stick and start picking up trash along the highway. Just dont give up, theres always a way around these problems and your odds of success only get higher with God on your side. Dont be a doomer but dont be a bloomer either, have a greypilled mindset, see the light at the end of the tunnel but recognize the darkness youll have to go through to get there. Godspeed anon.
God gave men and women different traits so that they have need forbeach other, attraction to each other and instructions how to live well so where did he mess up? This anti human relationship world is a recent human creation and because it is bad it is also unstable and thus will fall. The same people who shoved feminism down your throat already quake at the thought of low birthrates so they won't have people to leech from. It kinda sucks that you can't fulfill your dream but men can still have options even if they are old so as long as you don't give up you have a chance.
>>14879 maybe the people in image boards really born to be in monasteries and not the civil life, thats why we are NEETS at least thats what i wan to believe
>>14891 this is actually really good article to show people. Because it cuts through the riff raff and tells people what their aims truly are and always have been.
>>14879 if you want a gf,take it with your own grits. lift weights, diet, do semen retention.
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>>14909 Those things are good for everyone but I don't think it's right to tell guys that they have to be a charismatic top athlete to get a girlfriend. Your own parents were probably dumb, ugly and unfit even in their youth just like mine. Ultimately woman is just a selfish creature so as long as you bring some sort of net positive to her life she will stay.
>>14879 your post is an elaborate troll to make christians look like retarded incel faggots.
>>14909 Also ask yourself how many times have you seen a bodybuider with a big family vs derpy looking guy.
>>14931 This board is an elaborate troll. Just read all the larp posts. They are hilarious. >>14932 Those guys are the girls "backup" plan.
>>14931 I'm not a troll just a degenerate failed Christian.
>>14960 There is no failure in the body of Christ. Only perseverance.
there are even real christian women anymore? all the christian women i now want to go to (((university))) and (((live their lives))) while waiting for the (((perfect man)))
>>14967 few and far between. Rebuilding women is a pretty big task. Thats why i dont bother with relationships, that and the fact that there are no women my age around me. Theres too much work in this world to do to be bogged down by women right now, but if we play our cards right the cultural revolution will shift things amongst them in our favor anyways.
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>>14895 I believe this. The modern world has no soul and in the past we would be in monasteries and other high-minded things like poets and priests etc.
>>14895 >>15003 do NEETs go to church?
>>15429 I don't. It would be a step down. I learn more from online discussions and videos than I would from someone(priests) that has never actually thought about God's teachings. Everyone should read God's teachings and actually think about the why's. There are still monasteries, but they're more used as slave labor. It would be the ideal life though. Just peacefully pick grapes for a few hours in the morning, and then spend the rest of the day walking in nature and reading God's word.
>>15429 I do i like the worship songs but i dont like to stand up and clap my hands so i just keep praying in silence
>>15429 I am a neet and i don't go to an official church but i study the bible with a group of Christians, that sometimes includes a pastor. I was talking to the pastor about Conspiracy theories and i told him that one theory is that the church is controlled by freemasons, and he said that he had a freemason on his church staff. I know that God is stronger than organized evil, but I don't trust the church.
>>14931 >christians look like retarded incel faggots. It's honestly not a troll
Have you considered that a girlfriend, lust, and all this has been a distraction from God? "For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?" Matthew 16:26 Do not throw away God in pursuit of worldly possessions, but build up treasures for yourself in Heaven. "For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven." Matthew 22:30
>>14879 Piss off OP you bloody idiot
There are more women than men in the church. But there is a catch. They want a provider. Put on your armor and face the job interview and then face the woman.
>>16654 How many of those women are virigns? Only virgins deserve to be provided for by Christian men. harlots make their bed of whoredom to lie in
>>16660 Well ideally everyone would be married in adolescence is what I think. Are the father's owners of their daughters? Well nowadays they're not.
>>16660 What makes you think a porn addict like you deserve a virgin?
>>16959 What makes you think a porn addict like you deserve a virgin?
>>16959 Whether I do or dont deserve one is irrelevant, I wont marry a woman who isnt one. You can flip the thing on me as much as you want, that doesnt take away from the universal fact that virgin girls are much more desirable marriage material than a blown-out used-up scarred stretched out pussy. Youth, pair-bonding potential etc. are all desired traits in a woman. A man has only got to be a provider. it doesnt matter how much porn I watch, if I make dough then the ladies want it. But I wont be a bitch and settle for any old crumb of pussy like 99% of mankind. I'd rather die alone than Cleave my soul with someone else's sloppy seconds. Maybe when I'm 50 or 60 and have lived a happy life not being nagged or devoting the lions share of my time and money to a succubus, I might decide to have some kids to look after my affairs when I'm decrepit. The good thing being a man is you can have kids until you're 70 (I think Abraham was 90 in the bible when he had Issac) whereas it requires a literal miracle for a woman to have kids after menopause which hits women about 20 years after they reach their peak attractiveness (16 years old). Women who arent mothers by 40 are in deep shit, whereas 40 is actually an ideal marriageable age for a man.
If you had a moral obligation to drive one car, and only one car, until you die - would you rather buy one brand new or one that has 120,000 miles on the clock?
Plus Deuteronomy chapter 22:20-21 makes it pretty clear that God expects His people to marry as virgins and actually made it punishable by death if a girl lies about being a virgin to get married.
>>17015 You wouldn't want another woman if you had been with one woman since youth. The more women you're with the more wanting for women you have.
So yeah, God is on my side once again. us conservaiard /pol/tards cant stop winning
>>17018 *conservitard
Im going to be laughing my head off when all those single mothers are suffering the dire socioeconomic consequences of not keeping their maidenhood for marriage and raising a true natural godfearing househole. Rode the cock carousel? Enjoy your living hell.
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Just stand behind them while they're praying or singing the gospel. Then when they're slain in spirit (ie fainting from spiritual ecstasy) you can reach out and catch them. They'll remember your good deed and go back to you later. This happens all the time, some churches even employ people to stand behind their singers just in case. It's a great way to make money and especially to meet women.
>>17432 The trouble is dragging them out the church and into your car without anyone noticing.
>>17547 Exactly. He says that most of his friends have girlfriends and yet he chooses to ask on imageboard? Anyways my mum says that father's parents paid her to marry him. Same story with uncles.
>just find a church girl bro! Do not fall for this advice, more importantly do not give this advice. They're either all taken, and on top of that many young women do not go to church bringing your dating pool down even more. Find a girl outside of church and convert her later.
>>17567 >Find a girl outside of church and convert her later. No thanks I'm not a fan of roast beef.
>>17582 >Find a girl inside of church. No thanks I'm not a fan of roast beef.
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I have a 16 year old Portuguese cousin (it's not me because kids aren't allowed on this website) who'd like to have a trad Christian wife and many kids. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_Portugal What should he know? Should he already start looking for a Christian girlfriend (or one who at the very least isn't super-degenerate so he'd be able to convert her) to marry after becoming adults?
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>>17611 Also, he finds the high covid vaccination rate in his country a bad thing for his goal. Basically 90% of women around his age have taken the clotshot. Even if a vaccinated potential wife wouldn't die or get serious health problems from the clotshot, it would probably make her infertile. Well, some people would say "just pray that everything's gonna be fine, bro", but we can't always rely on miracles, right? What do you think?
>>17582 Typical anon: > God please send me a gf I'm so desperate and lonely God: > sends gf Typical anon: >No not this one.
>>17618 I had this woman who was attarctive to me, but she was a non-binary lesbian and wanted me to cross dress and at the time i almost fell for the tranny meme while also just starting to get red pilled. She was very angry and over weight, she would have made a terrible wife. She would get angsty over serving sodas to her male friends.
>>17643 >the time i almost fell for the tranny meme This is bait
>>17734 No, i almost feel for it before it was known as the tranny meme.
if you are in a imageboard you better be embracing 1 corithians 7
>>17750 This just inflates the schizos ego since they start to think they are so high and mighty because they cant relate to the opposite sex. You are dealing with angry entitled and resentful failures and this isn't unique to imgeboards but a part of the greater culture as a whole. >But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. Good passage by the way and probably gets intentionally ignored a lot because it can be so multifaceted. Thanks for posting.
Post pleasant examples of Christian women that we can enjoy without sinnning. Or talk about some one you know in real life that you consider to be a positive example of a Christian woman.
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>>18100 Christ those amish have good teeth!
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>>17769 you were so right you killed the thread
>>17430 Hobbies or Work, really just through the providence of life. But if you are desperate and want to cut to the chase you can do formal dating.
For me? Its waiting until artificial wombs are developed.
>>18568 not long now either. plus the odds of being able to grow more Christian men in a ziplock bag are much higher than the odds of finding a pure virgin Christian bride in a Western country so yeah, the answers are >artificial womb (100% likely within the next 50 years) SANDBOX MODE >third world country (but you have to accept that your bloodline will forever be worsened) EASY MODE >barter with a Christian family to marry one of their daughters HARD MODE >convert a reprobate woman into a God-fearing Christian INSANE MODE - TOO DIFFICULT FOR 99.99999% OF MEN since you cant turn a whore into a lady but through the power of God all things are possible (God must have predestined it success otherwise you're shit out of luck)
>>18568 this would be a sin? there is some way to extract the seed without indolging in masturbation or some reprobate method? >>18569 >groom a little girl and his parent Based mode >not getting your dick chopped off by some crazy relatives thats the hard parent
>>18606 I dont see how it would be a sin to go forth and multiply. God gave the science to mankind. If it is possible, it is in His glory.
Christ did not die on the cross to establish a dating service. God gives us what we need, not what we want.
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>>18840 >God needs us to be lonely, miserable, and wretched
> a big part of my dream in life to have a pretty girlfriend, and i had one when i was a teen but she became difficult and i was mean to her as payback and the relationship went bad, > God doesn't give us what's bad for us e.g. "a pretty girlfriend". >Since God won't give a girlfriend i become my own pathetic idea of a lustful God through porn, Don't blame God for your exercising your free will in a bad way. Pray for a wife who is a good Christian, does her Christian duty, and will help raise your children in a Christian life. This is why Catholics, per the Book of Job in the Bible, pray to saints. Saints are servants of God. If our prayers asks for anything bad for us or the church (like take our cross away) then the saint cleans it up and prays to God to give us something good. >>18850 It was the devil, not God, that tempted Jesus Christ in the desert with money, power and fame. yes, the meek shall inherit the earth. I don't get those who think God is a genie that just grants wishes. God looks to giving you every opportunity to choose heaven and not hell. But if you're stuck on hell.
>>18873 >It was the devil, not God, that tempted Jesus Christ in the desert with money, power and fame. >yes, the meek shall inherit the earth. >I don't get those who think God is a genie that just grants wishes. OP isn't asking for money, power, fame, or to inherit the earth. He is asking for basic human sustenance. To that end he should be praying the Lord's Prayer and believing in it.
>>18880 Did Christ have a woman? How is a "Pretty woman" as a girl friend "basic human sustenance"? It's not. Only two apostles were married, and one, Saint Paul, put his Wife aside to do the Lords work. Christ's context of "bread" was bread is His body. Better to pray and give thanks for what you have rather than ask for things that you don't need. Give thanks for a roof over your head, food to eat, water to drink because many people don't even have that. Pray for them, not for a "pretty woman". Better to pray for a Christian wife than a pretty girlfriend.
>>18918 >Did Christ have a woman? How is a "Pretty woman" as a girl friend "basic human sustenance"? There were several women that followed Christ, among them Mary, Mary, Mary, Mary, Mary, and Mary. And God created woman for the companionship of man (Gen 2:18). >Christ's context of "bread" was bread is His body. Words can refer to multiple ideas and St. Jerome translated the adjective attached to the bread of the Lord's Prayer as both superstantial bread and daily bread between Matthew and Luke. We ask Christ for both our physical and spiritual sustenance by the verse. >Better to pray for a Christian wife than a pretty girlfriend. Usually one seeks a girlfriend to become a wife. You are right in admonishing OP's genie logic however.
>>14879 God won't stop giving me dreams about the love of my life. He won't even let me know why I love her so much when I should hate her. This isn't even the worst part of the dreams. I'd go into the details, but there's not much point to that, the dreams are nothing sexual or even lustful though. I will say she's been married so I don't know why God keeps giving me these damned dreams. I could also go into how her friend used me too, but why bother. In my experiences, women are heartless and many of them derive pleasure from abusing and even destroying men. And most of them are brainwashed to be like this from a young age by MTV and Yidsney and the menace of the movies and the governmental schools which promote promiscuous sex and even sodomy and all the rest of it. Even kids shows and movies are full of feminist nonsense (it's so prevalent, even many of you wouldn't notice it at first), and feminism is a curse from God against men who failed in their Godly duties, I'd quote the scripture right now but I'm too depressed from this damned dream to have the motivation to do it. Where are you even supposed to find a nice honest woman to wife that isn't some 35+ year old whore who spent the last 20 years sleeping with every guy from here to Timbuktu but decided now's a good time to settle down and exploit a nice guy? All the good ones get married off when they're still young and fertile (which is the whole point of marriage), the rest of them seem to "chase careers" after 4+ years of whoring out in college, then only want men who make more than them for their love of money so they can stay at home and use their husband as an ATM. Even if you wanted to go for an 18 year old straight out of HS and even with her father's permission, she's already been brainwashed to believe partying and swinging and being a whore is "liberating" and "progress" and whatever other nonsense from media, peers, and even teachers.
>>18942 Are you claiming that Jesus Christ had "girlfriends" in the sexual context that OP uses the word? Then you say the Bible wasn't put together by the divine inspiration of the Holy Ghost as by the apostles around 300 AD. Christ said he would send the Holy Ghost to the apostles, and started apostolic succession with Saint Paul. The Words and acts of Christ are not questioned by Christians. In this age, there are many who live with their girlfriends with no intent to have an actual marriage or for the sake of Children. It's very sad. And Op didn't say "wife", he said "Girlfriend". I take him at his word and don't reinterpret to fit a combative argument.
>>18967 >Are you claiming that Jesus Christ had "girlfriends" in the sexual context that OP uses the word? No, for I did not realize how heavily OP was lusting. >Then you say the Bible wasn't put together by the divine inspiration of the Holy Ghost as by the apostles around 300 AD. Christ said he would send the Holy Ghost to the apostles, and started apostolic succession with Saint Paul. The Words and acts of Christ are not questioned by Christians Where did I say that? I am affirming Jerome's Latin. If you read the Latin Vulgate, he uses supersubstantialem (supersubstantial) in Matthew 6:11 and quotidianum (daily) in Luke 11:3 in the Lord's Prayer. And he was right in differentiating so for by the Holy Spirit he was communicating in both senses the truth of God.
If you don't believe in divorce, you don't believe in premarital sexual relationships.
I hate it to break to you, anon, but once you reach adulthood all you'll find is roast beef. When sexual immorality is not only allowed but esteemed, it's delusional to think that the average woman will wait until she finds the "one" under the pressure of puberty, moreso when she has to wait until her 30s. Unless you are willing to break the law, I suggest you become celibate.
>>19137 OPs wants white wiminz, anon.
>>19169 White muslims are pozzed, like everything western.
>>18221 Some are saying that they might not be real amish women and just be women pretending for clout.
Just because you don't touch yourself doesn't mean you aren't sinning. So much as G rated daydreaming about the women in this thread is sinful if I am not mistaken.
>>19928 The law says "Tho shalt not Covet" in my English translation; covet kŭv′ĭt intransitive verb 1 To feel strong or immoderate desire for (that which is another's). 2 To wish for (something) longingly. synonym: desire. 3 To covet that which is another's. I think an example of "Coveting someone else's wife" would Be when King David Plotted to murder Bathsheba's husband. Christ was speaking of coveting someone else's wife, or betraying your own. Now, Aquinas, that Catholic "Doctor" of the church, threw out even the Law of Moses and invented some sort of Chthulu god with sends you to hell for every act and thought unless you have some magic talisman. Aquinas made just temptation into mortal sin where you're cast into the lower depths of hell If you're Protestant, you don't believe Aquinas because he's Catholic. The church sprang from Martin Luther and King Henry after all because all the Apostles disappeared for 1500 years. If you're Catholic, then you know that the Catholic faith doesn't come from Aquinas, but from the Bible and teachings on faith and morals from the Popes. But then, you don't have a church you can go to because no "Catholic" believes that. Sorry if that's offensive. That's where my head is today.
>>19928 Does the bible say that we can't think of what we want our wives's qualities to have?
>>19940 Are you looking for faithful to God, or a sexually exciting pagan sinner? Yeah, pretty much the Bible tells us what we should value in a wife. Now, there's an exception buried in catholic belief of the pagan who converts and has a pagan spouse. Most priests don't know about it, since they believe the false gospel of "Saint" Aquinas
>>18100 >>18101 >>18102 >>18233 a lot of idolatry and immodest dress
>>18100 >pastor's daughter is cute >i end up liking her very much >she inspires me to learn things and to help in the church >she calls me "best friend" cause i think i was creeping her out >i start watching blacpill content >now it hurts me everytime im with her > i know that if i dont truly forgive her im going to hell help me
>>20457 >>she calls me "best friend" This can be used to express closeness, even when spoken between the genders. Are you sure she said it to reject you?
>>20646 women don't reject men to their face, they use the term "friends" to indicate they don't want to date you. most of the time they also use it as an underhanded way of saying they don't want to have anything to do with you from that point forward. a woman calling a guy a "friend" is de facto rejection. one woman described the feeling as a guy they thought was their friend asking them out if a guy's friend came out as gay and asked another one of their guy friends out on a date. the feeling of shock, betrayal, and confusion all in one moment is too much to handle and people lock up. they usually wrote off the warning signs beforehand as nothing more than being platonic, knowing what they really wanted in their mind but being too afraid of hurting them emotionally to tell them the truth.
If you think a girl is cute, she's out of your league. 10s go with 10s, 5s with 5s and 2s with 2s. You don't want to be that guy who's a 2 and only considers 10s. I knew a guy like that in High school. Now he's 66 years old and alone.
>>20652 Women don't even talk to me.
>>20652 1010552221066 The secret code to relating in human relationships. I found it.
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>>20651 I'm used to east asian women, and with them, becoming friends is usually the first step in the courting process. I get the impression that you're jumping to conclusions, but I don't really know.
Physical beauty fades, lasting only a few years. Inner beauty, a kind soul, last until death. I suggest you don't look for what the modern world has taught you to look for in a wife, and look for a good Christian woman; there are lots of them out there as being a good soul is not as valued by Christian men as being a hot babe.
>>20703 But dating an fat ugly woman is too tragic, she needs to be somewhat attractive, i know i can't get a 10 but at least a 6 or a 5.
>>20715 In 15 years, it won't matter.
>>20718 Why is that?
>>20719 Because a woman who feels secure in her marriage will not be so vain. It's true for men as well.
>>19940 Lmao read Song of Solomon
>>20722 Okay, i listened to it on Youtube, it was like a 20 minute love song, i fail to see your point.
Bro you don't need no woman just get a punching bag and focus on yourself!
What's wrong with 10 years younger if you're established? I was an idiot to reject a woman 11 years younger just because she was 11 years younger. It took that long for me to get "established". She would have been an excellent wife.

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