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Chastity Anonymous 10/29/2021 (Fri) 23:37:46 No.1734
Hello anons. I've never been a full on Christian but my girlfriend is. We're on a chastity vote and I kinda need help. How do you guys deal with frustration, how do I keep myself from pornography, masturbation and so on. I don't wanna betray her trust anymore
Ban any website which leads you to masturbate,(even sites like 4chan and such people talk there about horrible stuff even out of context) Any blocker from google store does (personally I use this https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/site-blocker/offfjidagceabmodhpcngpemnnlojnhn ) and other christian also recommended me and others this https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/leechblock-ng/ which works on Tor. Also for me personally keeping busy works , and the knowledge that jerking or wachting porn makes me only a dumb idiot which doesn't have control of him self ,see https://videos.lukesmith.xyz/w/qzLjCQUGCa995iEhnwZWpw and https://lukesmith.xyz/c/hedonism-asceticism-and-the-hermetic-answer There was also a thread about this a time ago http://tew7tfz7dvv4tsom45z2wseql7kwfxnc77btftzssaskdw22oa5ckbqd.onion/christian/res/1423.html And remember you don't need porn and you will be free if you can choose. And for wet dreams try sleeping looking at the sealing and without blanket By the way there are several studies which say that porn literally make your brain smaller Luck we all have suffer threw this
>>1740 >Ban any website which leads you to masturbate Ban this website because it has porn on it.
>>1740 >sealing You cant even type properly and your calling other people stupid.
There's a really good sermon somewhere online about this. To keep it short, sex should be the final stage of love. Sex should be like a gold medal at the top, and you should work hard at it. To have sex is like training for months to win first place in a race. Masturbating is like a participation trophy. You can feel good, but anyone can do it and it's truthfully worthless. When you can commit yourself to share your passion and intimacy only with your wife, then you are getting the full reward for your commitment. Sex is not just about sex. It's about trust. When you have sex, you get kids. If you cannot maintain a strong trust between yourself and your girlfriend, you will not be able to retain the strong trust required to raise a child. Remember that when you masturbate or have sex outside of marriage, you are tearing down the foundations of your love. Without trust, there can be no relationship. Ultimately, I think if you decided to humble yourself and truthfully ask Jesus to be your savior (if you haven't already), and then pray for help, I think God would be willing to help you on this topic. Peace be with you.
You need to ask God for help. I had been masturbating and viewing pornography for over 15 years. Eventually I knew I had to stop, because it is a sin. I had tried many times on my own, but I failed each time after a few days. It was only when I asked God for help that I was finally able to actually stop entirely.
>>1761 Why didn't you ask God for help in those 15 years? Maybe you just grew out of it.
>>1762 I wasn't with God during those times. I certainly did not grow out of it, and still feel temptation greatly.
>>1734 Maybe ask her to punch you or something if she catches you slipping? That kind of physical reaffirment does work, even if painful.
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>>1734 As I have always strived to do in the face of these adversities, and have succeeded in doing: Remind yourself when you feel aroused or sexual. I suggest, perhaps, you even change your desktop/phone background to pic related. Every time you look at your screen, you will be reminded, and soon, you will not need it at all. The faggot above me doesn't want you to self-improve or find meaning in your life. Remember his pathetic attempt to stop you, for that is your enemy: the weak and mentally feable horde of tools. Now watch him greentext this.
>>1864 I'm noticing a pattern with this soyjack and the webring...
>>1906 The fact that it's coming from another place full of really obnoxious people?

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