>How do you not let the world get you down?
you keep your eyes on the prize. Establish a goal whether it be religious, political, or personal and trudge toward it no matter the cost.
Its called being greypilled, recognizing the darkness around you but also seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
>i feel like they deserve my respect, even though that's not a very Christian answer, i should be respectful of all women
respect is earned not given, these women have done nothing to earn your respect, they cant even uphold the most miniscule elements of morality. You should pity them and pray for their deliverance.
Keep busy, curb whatever sin youre doing, engage with both God and nature more often preferably both at the same time, and start working toward a goal. And try to lift up others along the way.